A girl I met in my due date group a couple of years ago is always on FB posting pictures of her kids in her house. It is so disgusting, it breaks my heart!
Now, before I go any further, let me say I understand having a messy house sometimes, I know day to day life can sometimes get the best of you and your house may get messy for a while. Hell, I've definitely been there, I KNOW!
But every single picture she posts is the same stuff! Leaves everywhere, grime all over the floor, dirty dishes piled up in the sink, mountains of laundry. And you know.....all that would even be the slightest bit more okay if her kids weren't LITERALLY sitting in dirt on their living room floor.
To hear her talk about her kids....I mean as any mom, she would give ANYTHING for them, they are her world! She is with them every second she can be. So why can't she take more time to provide a cleaner environment for them? It just makes me sad for the kiddos.
I WANT to...I just don't know how. I worry so much about hurting other people's feelings, that I often don't stand up for what I should. One of the many things I'm in therapy for.....but I just don't know how! :-(
Quoting Anonymous:
I personally would say something to her. A messy house is one thing but there is no excuse for letting her house get that filthy.
Quoting Anonymous:
create another FB name, and comment on how dirty her house is, and if she loved her kids THAT much, she'd keep the place a little cleaner so they wouldnt' get sick
That's ridiculous if somebody would create a fb account just to do that. Why not just go to her woman to woman and talk to her about it?
Do you ever get hit on even looking a mess?
Why inflict this silly cosmetic pain on a baby!?!