So, me and my husband were out last night looking at cars and we had our 11 week old daughter with us. While my husband was looking at a car, I started making small talk with the salesman. He asked how old the baby was, and I told him. He said that he and his wife were trying....ugh, I already knew where this was going. He said that she is almost 35, and there had been some complications, and they are now going through the what next process. It just made me feel sooo bad. I NEVER wanted children, if you asked me I would tell you that I hated them, and having one was NOT on my to-do list. I took my mirena out last January, and got pregnant in February. Why in the world does it seem like people who really do want babies, can't? It seems like the cookie cutter couples, with a great life and that have only the world to give to a baby have the worst time trying to concieve. Like I said, it just made me feel so horrific inside, becasue I struggled with depression during my pregnancy, I was resentful....and here is this nice man and all they want is a baby.