Back story - back in 2008 I fell completely head over heels in love with a guy. I swear it was love at first site. Our relationship blossomed and we moved in together. I would have done anything for him. I thought we were happy. Then one day he forgot to pick me up at work. Then he wouldn't answer his phone. Three days go by and finally he comes home on a Harley. Telling he needed space and wanted me to move out. He said he wanted to focus on school and work. Obviously he was seeing someone else. I was blinded by love and thought he could never do that. Once I foun out I went into a spiral if depression.
I couldn't get over this guy to save my life. Not to mention he kept sneaking back in. Through text just coming over, stopping by my work, blah blah. He talked me into dating again. I did. I caught him texting the girl he was also seeing. Ok. Three chances and a trip to the mental hospital and I was done with him.
I still couldn't get him out of my head. That was until I had my son. He was born August 2011. I was happy and in love. My DH and I are in love, sometime passionately sometimes just comfortable. Idk I love my DH. But it's not the crazy kind of love like it was with my ex.
So my ex contacted me on fb an said we were always meant to be together. He wants to go get coffee. I told him that I am happy where I am now and I have no desire to see him. I thought I had blocked him but he must have created a new profile.
I blocked him. But this guy is in my thoughts now I am having dreams about him as well. I haven't done anything wrong, but I feel like I have. This guy broke my heart over and over again. He once told me you have to break a heart to be able to keep it forever.
I am happy where I am now. I have a loving family. I know DH would never cheat on me. He is safe. If I am happy now, why do I keep thinking about the other guy?