You feel like your SO just isn't the right person for you but it's more of a hassle to leave than to stay. That's how I feel... we have been together for 4 years, but I have never really felt like it was a forever thing. Then we had a baby... and now I feel like I can't leave. Once I did try to and my mother threw a fit because it would be "so hard" for my DD. I can't help it that my SO and I are just so different that in the long run that's not somebody I want to be with. Especially when they don't make it worth it for you. They don't value you, and just always complain about everything. Our hobbies are really different so one of the only things we can do together is watch tv or go out to eat. We have had many many discussions about how we could be happier with each other, but it just really never happens. He used to have a problem with talking to other girsl via texting or facebook. It would never turn into an in person thing . But he can't live without that kind of attention i guess. Because he never stops doing it even though i've confronted him hundreds of times. It's always "yeah i know it's bad and i promise i'll stop" for about 2 weeks, and then back to the secret texting. I really don't know what to do. There's nothing really wrong enough to just outright dump him. but not much to make me stay and i am really unhappy.