Ok I canâ€™t take this anymore, I love my DH so much but I just donâ€™t think Iâ€™m in love with him I have been with him for 8 years married for almost 2 years and we have a beautiful 2 year old lil girl. But I just canâ€™t take his shit anymore. He is so stinking inconsiderate, he sucks he has been working 2 jobs and I totally understand sheâ€™s super tired so I have been doing everything around the house which I donâ€™t care but when he comes home and lets the dogs out of the kennels and doesnâ€™t take then outside and then jumps in the shower and when he leaves puts the dogs back in the kennels , when I get home with the kid we eat dinner and I smell pee check all over the house to find that the dog had peed on our bed. So I got to do laundry all night.
The other night our little one got sent home from daycare since she was sick, I got off work early by like 3 hours to go get her went to go pick him up just 30mins early and he was all pissed I told him our little one we3as sick and he didnâ€™t even care. Then when we got to the daycare he was all rushing me and out little one I went to go pick her up and she was still throwing up and he was all mad. We got home and he just passed out on the couch, I put our little one on the other couch and she was still throwing up so I asked him to keep an eye on her so I could go get fire wood so we could build a fire. I go outside and come back heâ€™s passed out on the couch and sheâ€™s still throwing up. I decided to take her to her doctors and he w3ouldnt even getup to go with me. Took her to the doc and went back home and he was still sleeping. I asked him to build a fire when we got home from daycare and a few hours later still nothing.
Iâ€™m just so tired of him not helping at all and when he does itâ€™s such a big deal I feel like itâ€™s such a inconvenience for him. I just want this to be all over I feel like I would be better off on my own with my little one.
He works and I work I make $3 less than he does an hour and I still bring home more with my paycheck. Iâ€™m not sure what heâ€™s doing but heâ€™s definitely not working his full 8hr shifts each week. he always goes to the bar after work and that really bothers me a lot and I have said something to him about it but he still goes, we donâ€™t have the $ for him to be going to the bar all the time.