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Judge other moms???? I just don't understand why, when life is hard enough as it is, and being a parent is hard enough as it is, why do we judge, criticize, and belittle each other's parenting choices?? Please someone tell me.  I am a mother of 3, each are all very different and i do different things with all of them regarding behavior, discipline.  They were each slightly different as a baby as far as how i did things.  So why do other mothers feel the need to put down another mother's ability? No one is perfect, we all make mistakes along the way and there is no one right way, we do the best we can and we should be as supportive and helpful of each other as we can.  Does anyone else feel this way? I try very hard not to be judgemental of other mothers b/c you have no idea what could be going on in their life, what their child is like, what kinds of struggles they are facing every day, etc. and i don't understand why other mothers wouldn't be this same way.  Thoughts??

by on Feb. 1, 2013 at 8:14 PM
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AllieReed
by Gold Member on Feb. 2, 2013 at 11:40 AM

This is a website where people share their opinions....

thecoffeefairy
by on Feb. 2, 2013 at 11:41 AM
I think there are a lot of good moms on here that offer constructive criticism and support. It's really just best to not give the mean ones as much attention. They will stop if we don't sensationalize their hateful remarks. Focus on the wonderful people who care and want to connect with other people.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 2, 2013 at 11:49 AM
What are we talking? Judging someone for the brand of clothes they dress their kids in is stupid. Judging someone for hitting their kid is fine.
GhettoKoolAide
by Lighthouse Blues on Feb. 2, 2013 at 11:54 AM
It was the stripes! They just looked like underwear Santa would wear;). They seem to fit his silly side though:).


Quoting winkyloafer:

Briefs are too constricting and boxers are too airy, he says!




Quoting GhettoKoolAide:

I'm such a hypocrite! I was totally judging your boo thang's choice of undies last night, lmao.









Quoting winkyloafer:

Everybody judges everybody. You're a lying piece of shit if you deny it.






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jbirdsladie27
by on Feb. 2, 2013 at 1:49 PM

 I'll beat that ass
sexy

Quoting GhettoKoolAide:

Why does the poor horse get all the action? Someone beat me instead!!


Quoting jbirdsladie27:

You're beating a dead horse here.

 

GhettoKoolAide
by Lighthouse Blues on Feb. 2, 2013 at 3:24 PM
1 mom liked this
YEEEEEEEEEEEESSSSS!!!!! * bends over*


Quoting jbirdsladie27:

 I'll beat that ass
sexy


Quoting GhettoKoolAide:

Why does the poor horse get all the action? Someone beat me instead!!



Quoting jbirdsladie27:

You're beating a dead horse here.


 


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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 2, 2013 at 4:01 PM
Some people need to put others down to feel better about themselves.
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