I'm not really pregnant
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I don't know how this has gotten so out of hand. My husband and I have been trying for over a year. I've been taking some magic little pills to help things along for the past 4 months. I had a miscarriage 2 months ago.
Two weeks ago I was excited to tell my husband that I bought his favorite ice cream and I came up to him all smiles and said "guess what?"
He grabbed me and hugged me. He was so happy, because he assumed we were pregnant again. I don't know what came over me but I said that I was. I think I was secretly hoping that in a few days when I went to test, I actually would be, but I'm not.
We said we weren't going to tell anyone yet, but he blabbed to a couple of my friends husbands and now we are supposed to be telling our family on valentine's day.
How did I let it get so out of hand. I didn't mean to lie and I didn't know it would get so big so fast. I told him that we have an appointment next week for an ultrasound.
Do I just fake another miscarriage at this point? I really don't know what else to do to save face.
I do not think that faking a miscarriage is the right thing to do. I never said I did. I was merely pointing out that the whole unfortunate situation was not started maliciously, but because she loves her husband so much. She is not some monster. She is a human who made a mistake, which she is now trying to remedy. No, faking a miscarriage is not the answer, but she is obviously very upset and desperate, and therefore not thinking all that clearly.
Quoting Anonymous:
No, a woman who would actually rather fake a miscarriage and lie than tell the truth to her husband. You and OP sound like a match made in heaven. Pathetic.
Quoting SLMitchell:"What he's married to"? You mean a woman who would rather experience all this inner turmoil than break her husband's heart after he assumed her good news was that she is pregnant?
Quoting Anonymous:
Your poor husband. He has no idea what he's married to.
Quoting SLMitchell:
I do not think that faking a miscarriage is the right thing to do. I never said I did. I was merely pointing out that the whole unfortunate situation was not started maliciously, but because she loves her husband so much. She is not some monster. She is a human who made a mistake, which she is now trying to remedy. No, faking a miscarriage is not the answer, but she is obviously very upset and desperate, and therefore not thinking all that clearly.
Quoting Anonymous:
No, a woman who would actually rather fake a miscarriage and lie than tell the truth to her husband. You and OP sound like a match made in heaven. Pathetic.
Quoting SLMitchell:"What he's married to"? You mean a woman who would rather experience all this inner turmoil than break her husband's heart after he assumed her good news was that she is pregnant?
Quoting Anonymous:
Your poor husband. He has no idea what he's married to.
Quoting Anonymous:you know what? Thank you. I was beginning to think that no one understood at all and that I'm some kind of a monster. We have been trying and trying. His eyes were sparkling at that moment, how could I tell him it was just ice cream? I would never want to hurt him, never.
Quoting SLMitchell:"What he's married to"? You mean a woman who would rather experience all this inner turmoil than break her husband's heart after he assumed her good news was that she is pregnant?
Quoting Anonymous:
Your poor husband. He has no idea what he's married to.
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