Here is my problem. I have a 13 year old daughter. my daughter isn't my husband bio daughter but my husband has raised her since she was 1.
About a month ago my ex's sister somehow found me on facebook and sent me a message wanting talk to my daughter and i ignored the request. Then she sent me a friend request and i decline it the request. I haven't heard anything since then and tonight i got the same message from my ex's son who is 15 and a friend request i declined it as well.
My ex was an abusive sob and on drugs and i left the state to get away from all of that. I haven't heard anything from any of them in 13 years and now people want to start doing this. That is not my life or my daughter life. I made a new life here and i have a family here. I don't want this shit. They had my ex's son send me a message thinking i would respond because i raised that boy for 3 years but he is not a 3 year old anymore and i don't know him now. I understand that by blood he is my daughter half-brother and she is my daughter aunt but they are not her family. I am having issues with my daughter and i do not need any of them trying to get involved in her life right now. There is a reason why i left.
I don't know, this shit is just bothering me right now. and i just needed to vent and get it off my chest. I don't need anyone trying to tell me how i am a bad mom ect.... you don't know what we both went through all those years ago. I don't need anyone telling me i should let her talk to them either, because it isn't happening. i just wanted to vent.
thanks for listening.