Anyway cs has been behind due to a new payroll company, no big deal. So they sent an order for a lump sum. I thought I would at least let him know what was going on. He says what about your dude? Isn't he helping you out? I told him we are not together, and pretty much leave it at that. I don't need to explain anything about me to him. He then tells me if I would of known I would of jumped through fire for you! Ok! This has to do with your kids, I think to myself. Then he goes on saying he will leave his girlfriend Melanie, that he loves if I move across the country and will give me every dime he makes. I tell him we barely get along as friends and we won't get along being with each other. I want you to be happy with someone and that someone is not me! It's been 13 years since we divorced, I have changed. I just want to do what is right for the kids.
He then responds have a nice life.
Really? Why are men like this after so many years? I don't get it. What can I say to make him understand we just need to be parents to are children and nothing more! I have tried everything. Help!!!!!