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what would you do if SO popped you?

Posted by on Feb. 2, 2013 at 12:58 AM
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Because he didnt agree with what you were saying or doing?
My ex was abusive...he used to do this to end the argument if I didnt do what he wanted.
WHAT would you do?
For a long time id just agree or try extra hard not to make him mad....then I left.
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robibuni
by Platinum Member on Feb. 2, 2013 at 12:59 AM

Yeah I'd just leave, no questions.

Having girls, I don't EVER want them exposed to that and think its appropriate for a healthy relationship.

ETA: Point is, what kind of mother would I be if I stayed in a relationship like that? "Do as I say, not as I do", y'know?

spicy_n_sweet
by on Feb. 2, 2013 at 12:59 AM

He would be single and homeless ASAP.

We've been together 21 years... and yes.. If he did it just once he would be out on his ass.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 2, 2013 at 1:00 AM
I'd pop him back! But I'm thinking you mean something more. :/ glad you are out of that!!!
Jynnifer292
by on Feb. 2, 2013 at 1:00 AM
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 I would leave, without a doubt. I would never feel safe around him again. You don't hit people that you love.

SadeAyosmom
by on Feb. 2, 2013 at 1:00 AM

i wouldnt accept him being physical with me in any way. i am not physical towards him.. if say i started a fight then.. i think a women who hits has to expect to be hit back.

but i am not an aggressive person. i have never been in a physical confrontation ever. i hope i never am


svolkov
by Emerald Member on Feb. 2, 2013 at 1:00 AM
I agree. I didnt want my son seeing thatvand thinking it was ok


Quoting robibuni:

Yeah I'd just leave, no questions.

Having girls, I don't EVER want them exposed to that and think its appropriate for a healthy relationship.

ETA: Point is, what kind of mother would I be if I stayed in a relationship like that? "Do as I say, not as I do", y'know?


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RLT2
by on Feb. 2, 2013 at 1:00 AM
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Dead or in jail.

AngeLnChainZ
by Silver Member on Feb. 2, 2013 at 1:01 AM
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He'd be getting hit back!  I don't play that shit!

        

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 2, 2013 at 1:01 AM

Probably bash his face in.  I know that sounds overboard but I have no tolerance for anything like that. 

robibuni
by Platinum Member on Feb. 2, 2013 at 1:02 AM

Exactly. I mean, someone has to break the cycle because kids growing up in this and seeing it, will just continue the cycle. If I didn't leave, they'd allow themselves to be hit, or be an abuser themselves, and then their children, etc. SOMEONE has to end it.


Quoting svolkov:

I agree. I didnt want my son seeing thatvand thinking it was ok


Quoting robibuni:

Yeah I'd just leave, no questions.

Having girls, I don't EVER want them exposed to that and think its appropriate for a healthy relationship.

ETA: Point is, what kind of mother would I be if I stayed in a relationship like that? "Do as I say, not as I do", y'know?




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