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Baby fever? Help

Anonymous
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I have baby feverrrrrrr!!! I have two boys (4) (2) I just got out of debt and got a raise at work. We are still tight budgeted. We make bills fine. Daycare is a struggle. We are able to save 300 a month and spend 200 a week. I have a house and a guest room but lately I have wanted to turn that guest room into a nursery. Would it be selfish to have another kid?
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 2, 2013 at 1:14 AM
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by Anonymous on Feb. 2, 2013 at 1:16 AM

 If you can realistically afford it and your SO/DH is on board then I don't see why you should wait. If not then wait until you are more stable. I have bby fever as well and my DS is 8 yrs old.

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by Anonymous on Feb. 2, 2013 at 1:18 AM

My 3rd kid was a surprise, a good one of course. and it wasn't like we were really protecting ourselves...so, some people call that selfish but we can afford our family of five.  so, who cares what others think and if all is ok with hubby then ttc.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 2, 2013 at 1:18 AM

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by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 2, 2013 at 1:25 AM
Go for it.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 2, 2013 at 2:47 AM
Bump
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 2, 2013 at 1:32 PM

Baby Bump?! lol

AleaKat
by on Feb. 2, 2013 at 1:33 PM
I wouldn't at that point but that's me.
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by Anonymous on Feb. 2, 2013 at 1:34 PM
Babies... don't do it! They cry and poop and demand tons of time
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 2, 2013 at 1:35 PM

Try to wait it out for a little while if you can. You can afford it, but if you can save now then it'll be so much easier in the future for a new baby :-)

0Kit0
by Silver Member on Feb. 2, 2013 at 1:41 PM
Dont do it. Sleep on it for a few months. Set some goals and make some plans. If you can say you want a baby more than those things a few months from now then go for it. Remember that 4 y/o starts school in a year. Good luck!
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