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I am a heartless b****

Posted by on Feb. 2, 2013 at 4:54 AM
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 My ex just called me to tell me his dad passed away.  He was crying on the phone to me. I felt nothing for him.  Nothing.  I had told him (the last time he screwed me over) that there would be times that he would need me and I was no longer there for him.  He has screwed me over more ways than I ever thought possible, he has hurt my kids, and he has just been a huge disappointment over all.  I seriously felt nothing for him. It almost surprised me because typically I really feel for people and hate to see or hear people cry. I am highly affected by the emotions of others.  There was absolutely nothing.

 


by on Feb. 2, 2013 at 4:54 AM
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ladysamanda
by on Feb. 2, 2013 at 4:55 AM

Good. That's why he's your ex. He still obviously cares for you, or else wouldn't have bothered you. Sad.

Mashnut3161
by on Feb. 2, 2013 at 4:55 AM
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 your not heartless. He is a big boy. He should go to walmart and buy bigboy pants. and then put them on

DonnaPinitonya
by on Feb. 2, 2013 at 4:56 AM
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No much in the past, this doesn't make you heartless- this makes you human.

RoseBlossom
by on Feb. 2, 2013 at 4:57 AM
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not heartless, just fed up.

LCG83
by Platinum Member on Feb. 2, 2013 at 4:57 AM
I think that makes you heartless. A person can only take so much. Sounds like you've just become apathetic towards him.
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TrouserMouse
by on Feb. 2, 2013 at 4:57 AM

 He pretty much had to let me know. He wants me to tell the kids. He will want me to take them to the funeral because he won't have a way to transport them. At some point, he will probably ask me for money or a place to stay which will not happen at this point.

Quoting ladysamanda:

Good. That's why he's your ex. He still obviously cares for you, or else wouldn't have bothered you. Sad.

 


ATG499
by Platinum Member on Feb. 2, 2013 at 4:58 AM
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You're a fucking miracle if you're heartless.
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kiralyn
by on Feb. 2, 2013 at 4:59 AM
I don't blame you.
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briellesmomma
by Velvet on Feb. 2, 2013 at 5:00 AM
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Youre not heartless at all! I dont think so anyway :)

Mocking.Jay
by Gold Member on Feb. 2, 2013 at 5:01 AM
I didn't cry when my ex's coworker passed away. He wasn't there for me when my cousin died in a car accident. You're not heartless. He is getting what he deserves!
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