My ex just called me to tell me his dad passed away. He was crying on the phone to me. I felt nothing for him. Nothing. I had told him (the last time he screwed me over) that there would be times that he would need me and I was no longer there for him. He has screwed me over more ways than I ever thought possible, he has hurt my kids, and he has just been a huge disappointment over all. I seriously felt nothing for him. It almost surprised me because typically I really feel for people and hate to see or hear people cry. I am highly affected by the emotions of others. There was absolutely nothing.