Is this cheating?

[Anonymous]

When a couple is: Broken up, filed for divorce, separated, and/or otherwise not together, at all. (Even if legally still married, if the they both intend to end the marriage.)

Is sleeping with, dating, kissing, etc someone else considered "cheating"?

ETA: This is not specifically for, about, to, etc anyone or any story I have heard. It's just a question of your opinion. I do understand there are laws in certain areas that dictate otherwise what legal cheating is or is not. 

[queen_k0302]

To me it's still infidelity.

[nsparky1964]

I think once you separate, knowing its over,its not cheating...but doing the flip flop, sleeping with pending ex, will give mixed messages...

[Kat31]

If there are papers filed, no.

[Dinimon]

I don't know I there's a law but I agree with this.

Quoting nsparky1964:

I think once you separate, knowing its over,its not cheating...but doing the flip flop, sleeping with pending ex, will give mixed messages...

[Roxygurl]

This.

I've known a couple of people in that situation and I don't consider them cheating

Quoting nsparky1964:

I think once you separate, knowing its over,its not cheating...but doing the flip flop, sleeping with pending ex, will give mixed messages...

[s.osborne]

No

[lucsch]

I think if it feels like cheating, it probably is. On the other hand, if the divorce is all but complete, how can it be?

[KairisMama]

 Nope. They are not together anymore. All they are waiting for is the divorce to be legally finalized. Move on with your life I say. Finalization can take a LONG TIME.

[Anonymous]

No

[Anonymous]

Yes. If you are still technically married it is still technically cheating to sleep around.