I feel like i shouldnt be doing this

[Anonymous]

Okay so i found out dh was cheating on new years day. I was sad and confused. I needed a guys perspective so i looked up my friend kelly. I sent him a email and told him to call me. He text me yesterday and we talked for hours. I was telling my neighbor about him. My neighbor looked at me and said your happy again. Kelly and i were just friends nothing sexual. So i called my mom and talk to her about it. She said i shouldnt feel bad because dh cheated and told the women that he was kicking me out and moving her in. Im moving back to my parents next weekend. Kelly moved out of state in 2011. He said that he was moving after his lease is up. I said where and he said since im moving back to va so is he.

I feel like i shouldn't be talking to him but i know dh still talks and sees the girl. Am i in the wrong?

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Bump

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Bump

[mommy_me]

Rebound.

[crescentstar2]

no, your DH has obviously moved on, why shouldn't you be happy too? 

[kikibix]

So you and your dh are broken up due to his cheating and you are worried about offending him by being happy and talking to an old friend?  Not sure I understand what the problem is with your behaviour.

[Pnukey]

All you are doing is talking. It's fine.

[lovelife350]

are you getting a divorce?

[hplesha]

It's obviously over if both of you are already looking to move on

[kfroz0415]

No, but if it were me, now mind you this is jmo, I would keep it strictly friends until the divorce is final.

Just because your dh cheated, doesn't make it right for you to do it. Plus if you really care about this new guy, do you want it to turn into a rebound fling?

Btw I'm sorry your dh turned into a massive shithead.