If you don't spank your child that is fine and dandy. If you use timeouts that is fine and dandy. But when I comment about how I discipline my child don't tell me what I am doing is wrong or child abuse. When my child misbehaves she will get spanked. There are no ifs ands or buts about it. Unless you have an actual phd and not a made up one and can prove to me that spanking is detrimental to her health and well being I will continue to do it. Sincerely a mom who spanks. Have a nice fuckin day.