My 5 year old son was wearing my bra under his shirt. I made him take it off. I don't let him wear any of my clothes because he tends to stretch them out and pull on the fabric which ruins them. I am not made of money and need my clothes. This would be no big deal but he goes back and forth between being a typical boy to wanting to be a girl. He also does the mangina tucking his private between his legs. He tries to be a girl, wants long hair, wants to wear girl clothes. He makes hair clips for himself at school. His dad does not know as he has not been involved but visits an hour or so every other weekend. His dad also told our son mean things about justin bieber whom my son really loves. My son does not express his want to be a girl in front of his dad. I am not anti gay in fact I highly support the gay community, but I think any type of gender confusion requires a lot of care and therapy as it is rough on the person throughout their lives. We live in a mixed area where it is mostly conservative but there are liberal people too. It is a very well known and densely populated area to live. I don't know what to do with this. I just don't want my son to be bullied and I want him to thrive in school just like any other mom would.