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She is seeing her BM for the 1st time in 7-8 years -Update- -Update

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We tracked down my 9 year old's Bio mother and now we are in NY going to meet her. I want to sit her down and talk about her terminating her rights so I can adopt her daughter. I have been raising her since she was 6. We are meeting in a restaurant and I am going to try to talk nicely about it. I don't want a custody battle but I will fight for her like I fought for her sister. I want my daughter there so she can choose and tell her BM that she wants to be with me.





If she tries to fight I will get her for abandonment.





Please wish us luck. Will update later.



Update: I am sitting at the restaurant waiting for her. I did leave my daughter at home with a friend. BM is an hour late and I am nervous. I called her about 5x and it kept going to VM so I am going to assume it died or she is on the train

Update #2: It is 9:30 she never showed up. I left at about 7 and called and told her that if she still wanted to discuss I would give her until Sunday. If I go back home without meeting her then I will go to.court.
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by on Feb. 2, 2013 at 2:36 PM
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southwind720
by Member on Feb. 2, 2013 at 8:12 PM
Bump
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mcghee05
by on Feb. 2, 2013 at 8:27 PM
Bump for update
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Buggy979
by Platinum Member on Feb. 2, 2013 at 8:28 PM
If she is an hour late then she's not showing up... Go home and update
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TAG_ur_it
by Platinum Member on Feb. 2, 2013 at 8:30 PM

i take it she didn't show up?>

hudson.maggie
by on Feb. 2, 2013 at 8:32 PM
Sounds like she backed out :(
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buttercup627
by Platinum Member on Feb. 2, 2013 at 8:35 PM
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Why ask her permission at all just go to court for abandonment
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 8 on Feb. 2, 2013 at 8:37 PM
Agreed. She's obviously not interested.

Quoting buttercup627:

Why ask her permission at all just go to court for abandonment
krystyneh
by on Feb. 2, 2013 at 8:37 PM
Sounds to me like she stood you up. Is there a new update yet? I hope it all worked out.
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AliKatAK47
by Meanie Pants on Feb. 2, 2013 at 9:38 PM
Bump! For those who asked for an update
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Kayla2013
by Silver Member on Feb. 2, 2013 at 10:44 PM
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