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For those of you who think its wrong to be with someone whos legally married....

Posted by on Feb. 2, 2013 at 3:23 PM
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My moms bouyfriend is legally married. Him and his wife have been seperated for 5 years. Shes been refusing a divorce. He just filed divorce and hopefully hell get it if she doesnt sign I think it just takes longer that way. He left her 5 years ago because shes a heroine addict her oldest (not his) is 16 and a heroine addict. They had 2 kids together a boy 15 and a girl 12. The boy now lives with my moms boyfriend and hes fighting for his daughter. When his divorce is final they are getting married. My moms been friends with this guy for over 20 years. His stbex lives in another state. My mom and her boyfriend love each other theres nothing wrong with them being together. My moms best friend has been with his gf for 10 years helped raise her kids and everything. The problem. They are both legally married the guy hasnt even seen his wife in 20 years. The girl hasnt been with her husband in 15 years. They are both getting divorces finally and getting married.
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Sassy762
by CAFE SASSY HBIC on Feb. 2, 2013 at 3:26 PM
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Right or Wrong.... I personally would never become involved with a married man regardless of  how long he has been separated...but that is just me

lapcounter
by Queen Mom on Feb. 2, 2013 at 3:29 PM

Agree.

Quoting Sassy762:

Right or Wrong.... I personally would never become involved with a married man regardless of  how long he has been separated...but that is just me


Wydowness
by Kusabi on Feb. 2, 2013 at 3:30 PM
Ditto

Quoting Sassy762:

Right or Wrong.... I personally would never become involved with a married man regardless of  how long he has been separated...but that is just me

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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Feb. 2, 2013 at 3:30 PM
Agree


Quoting Sassy762:

Right or Wrong.... I personally would never become involved with a married man regardless of  how long he has been separated...but that is just me


Aleta775
by on Feb. 2, 2013 at 3:31 PM
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I agree with Sassy. Even if a person doesn't want to sign divorce papers, they cannot delay a divorce forever. There are ways to get a person to sign so that it doesn't drag out for years. I wouldn't feel comfortable being with someone that was still married. 

Quoting Sassy762:

Right or Wrong.... I personally would never become involved with a married man regardless of  how long he has been separated...but that is just me


Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 2, 2013 at 3:32 PM
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Adultery is bad, mkay?
Dzyre1115
by Desiree` on Feb. 2, 2013 at 3:33 PM
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 There is never a reason to move on before you wrap up your unfinished business and there is certainly no reason for a person to have to date a person with unfinished business.  Are people really that desperate?

SillySally83
by on Feb. 2, 2013 at 3:34 PM

I wouldn't do it myself, I don't need the drama and unfinished relationships come with a lot of baggage.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 2, 2013 at 3:34 PM

They're both committing adultery. 

ColtsFan1912
by FriendoftheFoot on Feb. 2, 2013 at 3:35 PM

I agree.

Quoting Sassy762:

Right or Wrong.... I personally would never become involved with a married man regardless of  how long he has been separated...but that is just me


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