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Son passed away. Do I tell his bio dad?

Anonymous
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My ex has never contacted my son or laid eyes on him. I left him when I was 2 months pregnant due to abuse. I have my son bio dad's number I found on the Internet. Ds left a message on the voicemail, but never heard from him. Now my sin has passed away, but I don't feel obligated to tell bio dad because he never gave a shit about him when he was alive. My son was 19 when he died.
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 2, 2013 at 3:37 PM
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Krystle21
by Silver Member on Feb. 2, 2013 at 3:38 PM
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I wouldn't tell him
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CBMMOM
by Gold Member on Feb. 2, 2013 at 3:38 PM

How long ago did he die? 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 2, 2013 at 3:38 PM
Ugh..stupid phone. Forgive the errors please.
melisawoosley
by on Feb. 2, 2013 at 3:38 PM
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Sorry for your loss :(
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 2, 2013 at 3:39 PM
Six months.

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How long ago did he die? 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 2, 2013 at 3:39 PM
:'( so sorry for your loss. Even though dad didn't show concern, the right thing to do is tell him imo..
MamaBear2cubs
by Nikki on Feb. 2, 2013 at 3:39 PM

I am so sorry for your loss. I don't think I would call him,if he had many any effort while your son was alive the yes,but he did not so I say no.

lucsch
by on Feb. 2, 2013 at 3:39 PM

I would tell him. I am sorry for your loss.

pattya925
by on Feb. 2, 2013 at 3:39 PM
I am sorry for your loss. Personally, I would tell him. I know that he wasn't involved but I feel he still should know.
taramac
by Platinum Member on Feb. 2, 2013 at 3:40 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss! Maybe just call him to inform him and leave it at that.
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