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DH pawned son's Leap Pad to go to the bar tonight!!! *UPDATE*

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

Not even joking. He scrambled around the house looking for something to pawn so he could have money to go out drinking! I tried to tell him that maybe he just shouldn't GO OUT drinking, but then a second later he had DS's Leap Pad in his hand and he was headed out. I'm beyond pissed off right now.

I married a schlep!!

 

*Update: He came home last night at 11:30 with the Leap Pad in his hand. He said the Pawn Shop wouldn't take it, but told him to bring it to Once Upon A Child consignment store. He chose not to waste his time driving over there, thankfully, and brought it home. I am still upset that he even attempted to do it. I still realize he has major problems and if I can't help him figure them out, then yes I will end up leaving.

For the 2% of you that think I'm trolling- if you are going to think that everyone is on CM just to troll around then what's the point of being on here? Not everyone creates fake stories just to cause drama. If you don't want to offer helpful advice or just let people vent about issues they are dealing with, then go away. You have no idea what my entire situation is. I gave you a glimpse of what I go through. I don't need you coming at me calling me a liar.

Thanks to the rest of you for your kind words- and reality checks.

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 2, 2013 at 8:56 PM
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crumpy_gat
by No. on Feb. 2, 2013 at 11:59 PM
I agree, wow!! Nice to see :)

Quoting halleys_mommy_1:

What a great people you and your husband are :-)




Quoting Anonymous:

Don't cry. :-( The offer still stands if you want, my husband is so upset for your son. I could give you my email address? Even if it's just to talk.





Quoting Anonymous:

 omg. I'm bawling my eyes out right now. Oh God! A stranger respects my child more than his own father!!!! Jesus... my life sucks so bad




Quoting Anonymous:

I know you're anonymous (and so am I but I could give you my email address), so I'm not sure if you'd want to reveal your identity, but my husband is seriously willing to buy your son a new Leap Pad. He's FUMING right now.



 


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thecoffeefairy
by on Feb. 3, 2013 at 12:00 AM
Exactly


Quoting PitbullPrincess:

Be a helpful wife and get his bags packed and on the porch.


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mybabybugssmile
by on Feb. 3, 2013 at 12:15 AM
Im not trying to be Debby Downer cuz the offer is awesome, but wouldnt that be a waste of your husbands money? A new leap pad would just get even more money for the bar.

Quoting Anonymous:

I know you're anonymous (and so am I but I could give you my email address), so I'm not sure if you'd want to reveal your identity, but my husband is seriously willing to buy your son a new Leap Pad. He's FUMING right now.
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asistartomosh
by Bronze Member on Feb. 3, 2013 at 12:16 AM
Wtf
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AdellesMom
by on Feb. 3, 2013 at 12:18 AM
What an asshole.

I'd rip my husband to shreds if he pawned off DDs Leappad !! SMFH
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godsgirl26
by on Feb. 3, 2013 at 12:19 AM


Quoting Presley77:

WOW. :(bad

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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 3, 2013 at 12:20 AM
Pretty positive they don't pawn for much, but she's not accepting the offer anyway (which is 100% fine). I think about my own little boy and my heart just hurts.

Quoting mybabybugssmile:

Im not trying to be Debby Downer cuz the offer is awesome, but wouldnt that be a waste of your husbands money? A new leap pad would just get even more money for the bar.



Quoting Anonymous:

I know you're anonymous (and so am I but I could give you my email address), so I'm not sure if you'd want to reveal your identity, but my husband is seriously willing to buy your son a new Leap Pad. He's FUMING right now.
valentina408
by on Feb. 3, 2013 at 12:21 AM

alcoholism gets worse and worse. He will be physically abusive and then not come home for days at a time.  Also, you will stop seeing his paycheck.  Get the hell out of this relationship.  and before you do, make CERTAIN that you don't get pregnant.  does he have a good family you can speak to about this?

afwifeandmommy3
by on Feb. 3, 2013 at 12:22 AM
Who takes a leap pad in pawn . You need to change the locks and kick him out
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 3, 2013 at 12:24 AM
Omg, really??

That's just ridiculous.
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