How often is it ok...

[Anonymous]

... For your so/dh to go out to the bars with his friends??
I understand that guys need time with just their buddies. I'm just wondering what each of you ladies consider ok?
Dh is pouting because I "never want him to go out". I just feel like there is more mature things to do than go drink beer at the bar. Majority of his friends are single- so the buddies go out all the time.

[Anonymous]

i think me and df could use more time at the bar.

[Anonymous]

Never. Mine doesn't drink.

ETA Mine does hang out with friends once or twice a month.

[Anonymous]

Whenever he wants. And I appreciate the same in return, when I wanna go out, I don't expect to fight with him over whether or not I can, or whether or not he is capable of taking care of a child for a while or not.

[RaynesMommy07]

He never goes out. Neither of us do. Not because its not "allowed" or we don't want to. Just life catches up with us. And as lame as it sounds most of the time were too tired. :/

[MissMysteriouss]

We don't do bars and rarely drink. Neither one of us hang out with friends. We are homebodies and would rather stay home as a family.

[EAzizM]

Dh doesn't go to bars. He does hang out with his friends regularly. They need time with buddies. I have never understood women telling their husbands what they can or can't do. Psh.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't mind mine going once every other week, If we found a baby sitter he would have to take me the other 2 weeks.  I think men need their guy time like we need our bff time.

[Anonymous]

Uh never he stays home with me and his dd he does go snowmobiling some times.

[StevieMarie]

I'm not sure how to answer this because dh doesnt go to the bar or anything like that. All our friends are mutual so we dont have an issue with this ever. Ih he did want to, I think once a week would be reasonable.

[sheymann]

Maybe every other weekend. I wouldn't be super comfortable with DF going out with his single friends to the bar every weekend...