I feel like a disgrace (s/o)
Posted by Anonymous
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What do you think
I am 20
I have a 3 month old baby
My bf and I planned on getting married before we conceived
We both have finished college and had well paying jobs
We both have great supportive families that haven't pushed us to marry
Most of our friends have had children out of wedlock... But I don judge them only myself
We just keep postponing marriage because I haven't lost the baby weight we don't have extra $ for rings my family lives across the country so we don't even know where to have the wedding and we don't even know if we want a big wedding
I feel ashamed that I had a baby out of wedlock it kills me to call him my boyfriend when he should be my husband, the more I think about it I want to elope
Do u think I am a disgrace
I am 20
I have a 3 month old baby
My bf and I planned on getting married before we conceived
We both have finished college and had well paying jobs
We both have great supportive families that haven't pushed us to marry
Most of our friends have had children out of wedlock... But I don judge them only myself
We just keep postponing marriage because I haven't lost the baby weight we don't have extra $ for rings my family lives across the country so we don't even know where to have the wedding and we don't even know if we want a big wedding
I feel ashamed that I had a baby out of wedlock it kills me to call him my boyfriend when he should be my husband, the more I think about it I want to elope
Do u think I am a disgrace
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 3, 2013 at 1:00 AM
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on Feb. 3, 2013 at 1:01 AM
If I wanted to marry a man I would just marry him. You don't need a huge wedding or expensive rings to get married.
by Anonymous - Original Poster
on Feb. 3, 2013 at 1:03 AM
Yeah I did I just have an associates in aplied sciences, I graduated Hs early and wanted to start working so I went to school to be a vet tech. The pay isn't amazing but I have everything I need and a lot of what I want :)
Quoting Anonymous:Did you go to a 2 year college? Lol
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on Feb. 3, 2013 at 1:04 AM
Then have a simple wedding. You don't need fancy rings or a fancy wedding to be married. Renew your vows when you can afford the wedding of your dreams.
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AliKat
on Feb. 3, 2013 at 1:05 AM
OMG. From now on everyone on CM under the age of 32 is a disgrace. Okay. So you're a disgrace, I'm a disgrace and the entire 20 Something Moms group is a disgrace.
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AliKat
on Feb. 3, 2013 at 1:06 AM
Hey, I'm a vet tech. I love the animals. The people are dumb as bricks but the animals are so sweet.
Quoting Anonymous:
Yeah I did I just have an associates in aplied sciences, I graduated Hs early and wanted to start working so I went to school to be a vet tech. The pay isn't amazing but I have everything I need and a lot of what I want :)
Quoting Anonymous:Did you go to a 2 year college? Lol
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At what age should I tell my son dh is not his bio dad?
do you sit or squat?