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I feel like a disgrace (s/o)

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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What do you think
I am 20
I have a 3 month old baby
My bf and I planned on getting married before we conceived
We both have finished college and had well paying jobs
We both have great supportive families that haven't pushed us to marry
Most of our friends have had children out of wedlock... But I don judge them only myself
We just keep postponing marriage because I haven't lost the baby weight we don't have extra $ for rings my family lives across the country so we don't even know where to have the wedding and we don't even know if we want a big wedding
I feel ashamed that I had a baby out of wedlock it kills me to call him my boyfriend when he should be my husband, the more I think about it I want to elope
Do u think I am a disgrace
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 3, 2013 at 1:00 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 3, 2013 at 1:01 AM
I am not working currently because I just had the baby :) we are moving in with family soon to have help with the baby so I can work because I miss my job working with animals
FL2AK
by on Feb. 3, 2013 at 1:01 AM
If I wanted to marry a man I would just marry him. You don't need a huge wedding or expensive rings to get married.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 3, 2013 at 1:01 AM

Did you go to a 2 year college? Lol

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 3, 2013 at 1:03 AM
Yeah I did I just have an associates in aplied sciences, I graduated Hs early and wanted to start working so I went to school to be a vet tech. The pay isn't amazing but I have everything I need and a lot of what I want :)



Quoting Anonymous:

Did you go to a 2 year college? Lol



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JasonsMom2007
by Silver Member on Feb. 3, 2013 at 1:04 AM
Then have a simple wedding. You don't need fancy rings or a fancy wedding to be married. Renew your vows when you can afford the wedding of your dreams.
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Sassy762
by CAFE SASSY HBIC on Feb. 3, 2013 at 1:04 AM

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 3, 2013 at 1:04 AM
its only a disgrace if you don't Mary him.
AliKatAK47
by Meanie Pants on Feb. 3, 2013 at 1:05 AM

OMG. From now on everyone on CM under the age of 32 is a disgrace. Okay. So you're a disgrace, I'm a disgrace and the entire 20 Something Moms group is a disgrace.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 3, 2013 at 1:05 AM
This confuses me therefore I am insulted lol jk but seriously what does this mean?! I'm already insecure -.-


Quoting Sassy762:


AliKatAK47
by Meanie Pants on Feb. 3, 2013 at 1:06 AM

Hey, I'm a vet tech. I love the animals. The people are dumb as bricks but the animals are so sweet.

Quoting Anonymous:

Yeah I did I just have an associates in aplied sciences, I graduated Hs early and wanted to start working so I went to school to be a vet tech. The pay isn't amazing but I have everything I need and a lot of what I want :)



Quoting Anonymous:

Did you go to a 2 year college? Lol




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