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I dont think im wrong but he does

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
My so has,this thing with me hanging out wit my guy friends. My best friend who I lost touch with called me,today to hang out so we did. My df gets so mad and makes it a huge deal. Its not like im having sex with the guy. Geez vent over
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 3, 2013 at 5:57 AM
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Jers.
by on Feb. 3, 2013 at 6:48 AM
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You can't be serious!

Quoting MommyAddie:

You don't hang out with other guys when you're in a relationship.



emariec89
by on Feb. 3, 2013 at 6:49 AM
Okay well would you mind if he hung out with female friends when you arent around?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 3, 2013 at 6:49 AM

Communication is key for relationships to work!! Good Luck!

Quoting Anonymous:

I see where your coming from . I honeatly has no idea,why he dosent like it. Im going to talk to him.


Quoting Anonymous:

My personal opinion is that you are wrong for not respecting your husband's feelings.  I agree that you should be able to hang out with friends, but if he has a problem with it you should find out why and work on fixing why he isn't comfortable with it.  Again, just MHO.



Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 3, 2013 at 6:52 AM
Its never came up but I would not mind maybe not alone but in a,group sure.


Quoting emariec89:

Okay well would you mind if he hung out with female friends when you arent around?

MommyAddie
by Platinum Member on Feb. 3, 2013 at 7:00 AM
Of course I am.

Quoting Jers.:

You can't be serious!


Quoting MommyAddie:

You don't hang out with other guys when you're in a relationship.




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emariec89
by on Feb. 3, 2013 at 7:00 AM
Well i think your relationship should be your priority so before going out and hanging out with whomever. You guys should discuss why it bothers him and come up with a compromise. Theres no reason you should put av strain on your relationship just to hang out with someone


Quoting Anonymous:

Its never came up but I would not mind maybe not alone but in a,group sure.




Quoting emariec89:

Okay well would you mind if he hung out with female friends when you arent around?


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MommyAddie
by Platinum Member on Feb. 3, 2013 at 7:01 AM
Were you alone or in a group when you hung out with your friend?

Quoting Anonymous:

Its never came up but I would not mind maybe not alone but in a,group sure.




Quoting emariec89:

Okay well would you mind if he hung out with female friends when you arent around?

Posted on CafeMom Mobile
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 3, 2013 at 7:07 AM
In a group


Quoting MommyAddie:

Were you alone or in a group when you hung out with your friend?



Quoting Anonymous:

Its never came up but I would not mind maybe not alone but in a,group sure.






Quoting emariec89:

Okay well would you mind if he hung out with female friends when you arent around?


Lalalie
by Gold Member on Feb. 3, 2013 at 7:09 AM

That sucks!

=/

I wouldn't be okay with that. I have guy friends, and girl friends. My SO is the only one who means something romantically to me.

MommyAddie
by Platinum Member on Feb. 3, 2013 at 7:09 AM
Hmm. There are a lot of nuances that can make that an ok thing or a very bad decision. You and him need to talk this out so you know just what aspect of it made it not ok to him. Good luck.

Quoting Anonymous:

In a group




Quoting MommyAddie:

Were you alone or in a group when you hung out with your friend?





Quoting Anonymous:

Its never came up but I would not mind maybe not alone but in a,group sure.








Quoting emariec89:

Okay well would you mind if he hung out with female friends when you arent around?


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