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Dominant/submissive ladies I need you!!!

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Dh and I are trying to transition into a d/s 24/7. Do you have any advice on how to make this transition easier?
He is having trouble transitioning into the everyday life part. He is Dom.

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 3, 2013 at 8:48 AM

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notjstasocermom

Ruby Member on Feb. 3, 2013 at 8:49 AM

set specific guidelines.

Beautiful31mom

Ruby Member on Feb. 3, 2013 at 8:52 AM

Quoting notjstasocermom:

set specific guidelines.

there ya go. I agree with this. and don't expect the transistion to be easy, and don't go by someone elses standards of what it is, what works for you may not work for others and it goes both ways. you guys gotta find what works for you.

Good Luck!

by Anonymous on Feb. 3, 2013 at 8:52 AM

Easier? It sounds like you're trying, but having some 'complications' ... if thats the case ... can you be more specifici?

Gastromama2007

on Feb. 3, 2013 at 8:53 AM

I just went into my relationship submissive, and it just carried into our marriage. I'm not sure how to give you tips, except setting some guidelines and expectations? Good luck.

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by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 3, 2013 at 8:55 AM

We have but he is having trouble doing this 24/7. When we're in the bedroom everything is great and at times during the day he seems to get it but how do I get him to understand what it means to do it 24/7. I think he's not understanding the non-sexual side of things.

Quoting notjstasocermom:

set specific guidelines.

by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 3, 2013 at 8:56 AM

We have set guidelines but he is having trouble doing this 24/7. When we're in the bedroom everything is great and at times during the day he seems to get it but how do I get him to understand what it means to do it 24/7. I think he's not understanding the non-sexual side of things. We've talked about this a lot. And we're both sure it's what we want.

Quoting Anonymous:

Easier? It sounds like you're trying, but having some 'complications' ... if thats the case ... can you be more specifici?

by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 3, 2013 at 9:02 AM

The problem is he's having trouble adjusting to the non sexual side of things, the everyday life part. He seems unsure of how to be Dom in those situations.

Quoting Beautiful31mom:

Quoting notjstasocermom:

set specific guidelines.
there ya go. I agree with this. and don't expect the transistion to be easy, and don't go by someone elses standards of what it is, what works for you may not work for others and it goes both ways. you guys gotta find what works for you.

Good Luck!

mattiehatter

Mary on Feb. 3, 2013 at 9:04 AM

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What about setting up to carry your D/s relationship through the weekends first and once that gets easier expand to other days of the week. Good luck.

by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 3, 2013 at 9:27 AM

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by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 3, 2013 at 9:46 AM