Dominant/submissive ladies I need you!!!

[Anonymous]

Dh and I are trying to transition into a d/s 24/7. Do you have any advice on how to make this transition easier?
He is having trouble transitioning into the everyday life part. He is Dom.

[lapcounter]

Not sure what to tell you, we feel into it very easily without realizing it. It seems maybe if your having trouble maybe you should reevaluate if it's for you and your husband.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

I know it's for me I've been wanting this for awhile. I hadn't even said anything until he brought it up saying he wanted to do it.

Quoting lapcounter:

Not sure what to tell you, we feel into it very easily without realizing it. It seems maybe if your having trouble maybe you should reevaluate if it's for you and your husband.

[LovelyMommy24]

I'm not in that type of a relationship so here's a bump for you!

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Bump

[MountieMama]

Good luck. I enjoy being completely submissive in the bedroom. But I feel like its made my husband crappy outside the bedroom. I don't want to be submissive all the time. Unfortunately our marriage is hurting now that our sex life is amazing

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Bump

[knkd]

If he's having trouble transitioning...he's probably not Dom like you want him to be.

[Homeschoolmom99]

Do not make it 24/7 is my advice it is hard there are groups that can help

[got2monsters]

idk but heres a bump.

[gypsy30]

 I've been reading about this a little bit lately online, even some blogs that submissives and doms keep.  Some aspects of it sound kind of interesting and intriguing, especially the sex part of it.  I like it when my dh takes charge in the bedroom.  But there are some aspects of it that I just can't wrap my head around, and I've tried to.  Like the humiliation things, and the causing real pain things.  I don't think I could ever stand in the corner for doing something my dh didn't approve of, or "writing lines", like I've read at so many blogs.  Or being hit with a cane or flogger or something.  And yet, I know there are millions of women who enjoy the lifestyle, so there has to be something rewarding about it.  I don't have an answer to your question, but I'm really curious (not judgmental) as to why some women WANT to do this.  What is it about it that makes you want to be a part of a D/s relationship?

Well, I guess I do have somewhat of an answer to your question.  Go online and look around. There are tons of sites that help people who want to transition into this, and things to do to do that.  One is called Subs helping Subs and has a lot of info.