Not sure what to tell you, we feel into it very easily without realizing it. It seems maybe if your having trouble maybe you should reevaluate if it's for you and your husband.
Quoting lapcounter:Not sure what to tell you, we feel into it very easily without realizing it. It seems maybe if your having trouble maybe you should reevaluate if it's for you and your husband.
If he's having trouble transitioning...he's probably not Dom like you want him to be.
Do not make it 24/7 is my advice it is hard there are groups that can help
I've been reading about this a little bit lately online, even some blogs that submissives and doms keep. Some aspects of it sound kind of interesting and intriguing, especially the sex part of it. I like it when my dh takes charge in the bedroom. But there are some aspects of it that I just can't wrap my head around, and I've tried to. Like the humiliation things, and the causing real pain things. I don't think I could ever stand in the corner for doing something my dh didn't approve of, or "writing lines", like I've read at so many blogs. Or being hit with a cane or flogger or something. And yet, I know there are millions of women who enjoy the lifestyle, so there has to be something rewarding about it. I don't have an answer to your question, but I'm really curious (not judgmental) as to why some women WANT to do this. What is it about it that makes you want to be a part of a D/s relationship?
Well, I guess I do have somewhat of an answer to your question. Go online and look around. There are tons of sites that help people who want to transition into this, and things to do to do that. One is called Subs helping Subs and has a lot of info.
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