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Going anon for this because I am about to offend the hell out of ASD parents

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Do you know that people with non-asd kids don't automatically hate your children?
Do you understand that not every kid with a behavior issue is autistic? So stop trying to diagnose every brat with autism.

Do you know that when we ask questions about your kids it is not to bash you or your kids?

Why can't you fathom that people without ASD kids do try to understand you and don't hate your kids?

Why is it impossible for you to understand that we don't blame you for your child having ASD but if you refuse to discipline them because they are autistic then you will get looks. And its not beccause we hate your kid but because seeing a kid throw a tantrum in Walmart is bizarre to us

And if someone doesn't understand and is trying to understand, calling them ignorant bitches will completely turn them off to you and your child. So when people are looking to learn, teach them.

Why do you strive for equality for your kids by pushing them into regular ed classes but don't care about the NT kids. How are they equal if they get special treatment and take away from the NT kids?

This isn't a bash post. I am just super curious as to why ASD parents think this way
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 3, 2013 at 11:03 AM
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by on Feb. 3, 2013 at 7:11 PM

 I really think it all depends on the parents just like any family. My son has a girl with aspergers in his class who is absolutelyterrible, and personally it's because her mom will point blank say everything she does is because of her disorder, no matter what it is. My dd's class has a little fellow with autism and he is an absolute joy, his mom's philosophy is that he will follow the rules like every other child. When he doesn't it is addressed, not excused away by autism.

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