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What's the one thing that would be an absolute deal breaker?

Anonymous
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What the one thing that would cause you not to date a person?

I actually have 2 things.

1-convicted child molester or rapist (obviously)

2-anyone whose favorite food is spam, potted mean, bologna, salami, liver cheese, hot dogs, or anything canned that shouldn't be...beef stew, tamales, whole chicken...
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 3, 2013 at 3:33 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 3, 2013 at 3:36 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 3, 2013 at 3:36 PM
Physically cheating on me
RissyLee
by Platinum Member on Feb. 3, 2013 at 3:37 PM
I have several. That's probably why I've been single for three years haha
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ElitestJen
by on Feb. 3, 2013 at 3:37 PM
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LOL  The one thing?  I'm gonna go with the fact that I'm married.  ;-)

EmmaGlenn20
by Platinum Member on Feb. 3, 2013 at 3:37 PM
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Someone who does not have goals for the future, aspirations to achieve more and educate themselves throghout their life.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 3, 2013 at 3:39 PM

someone who already has kids. I learned from my friends that a man with kids is nothing but trouble and drama.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 3, 2013 at 3:41 PM

for me personally, somebody who drank, smoked or did drugs of any kind. not something I wanted to deal with.

MissMysteriouss
by on Feb. 3, 2013 at 3:41 PM
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Drinks regularly or hangs out at bars.

Does any type of drugs or smokes cigarettes.

Doesn't have a good paying, normal job. Must have a good work track record.

Has ever been in jail or convicted of a crime.

Is abusive

Cheats

I don't date outside my race

If he had ever been with another guy in the past.

I am sure there are more.

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KyrinM
by on Feb. 3, 2013 at 3:42 PM

Well on your first one, it would depend on circumstances, a lot of men get saddled with a convicted child molestation or rape charge for consentual underage sex.  So that would be subjective.  Of course on someone who is guilty of real child molestation or rape.  But I don't consider a guy having sex with his 16 year old GF when he is 18 counts under that, & I would guess about 85% of the men who have this charge on their record, that is the circumstances. 

As for the rest of your criteria, why?  A lot of people who grew up poor, these things are comfort foods because they were luxuries in their homes, so I wouldn't hold it against them.  I just wouldn't eat it myself.

cLanief
by on Feb. 3, 2013 at 3:43 PM
Criminal record

Living situation

job (he has to have one and pay hIs own bIlls) 

if he has kids what's his situation with them (no dead beats)

no married guys

no living with his kids mother

He has to have his own car

Must do his own laundry(my ex roommates mother would come over and do his laundry for him abd he was In hIs 30s)

No drug users(I don't mind pot smokers but can't have it in my home. I'd rather not give my x fuel)



Ummmmm can't think of anything else right now lol


Eta! Oh! No alcoholics, no beaters, no crazies, no super religious, no vegetarians, no virgins, and no guy who wants to have more kids!
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