This is what DH and I did this morning.
It started off inocently. He knows that I am not on BC right now because I had to find a different Dr., and I ran out before my new appointment. So, we have been using the pull out method - for almost a month now.. We've only had sex maybe once a week, and it's worked thus far. (I think.)
Well, we were into it pretty good, almost at the point of climax, and he says "I had a dream last night that we had another baby. It was a boy. Baby, I really want a boy." He didn't much get that out of his mouth before he came. I was in shock. He tells me almost weekly how 2 is enough. We have 2 girls, one has learning disabilities. Sure, I'd love to have another baby - but after what I went through with labor and delivery with #2 (she had problems while I was preggo with her, and she ended up being an emergency c-section), honestly, I'm scared to death of going through that again.
I truly think DH said that only because it felt "too good" to pull out. It was just much easier for him, and he's *praying* he didn't knock me up.
I'm pretty torn. I'm so pissed that he did that.