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Irresponsible Baby-making.

Anonymous
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 This is what DH and I did this morning.

It started off inocently. He knows that I am not on BC right now because I had to find a different Dr., and I ran out before my new appointment. So, we have been using the pull out method - for almost a month now.. We've only had sex maybe once a week, and it's worked thus far. (I think.)

Well, we were into it pretty good, almost at the point of climax, and he says "I had a dream last night that we had another baby. It was a boy. Baby, I really want a boy." He didn't much get that out of his mouth before he came. I was in shock. He tells me almost weekly how 2 is enough. We have 2 girls, one has learning disabilities. Sure, I'd love to have another baby - but after what I went through with labor and delivery with #2 (she had problems while I was preggo with her, and she ended up being an emergency c-section), honestly, I'm scared to death of going through that again.

I truly think DH said that only because it felt "too good" to pull out. It was just much easier for him, and he's *praying* he didn't knock me up.

I'm pretty torn. I'm so pissed that he did that.

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 3, 2013 at 8:05 PM
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CreziaMommyTo2
by on Feb. 3, 2013 at 8:06 PM
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ask him?  duh

bustybee
by Buzz Lightyear on Feb. 3, 2013 at 8:07 PM

lol. dh likes the thought of knocking me up. its a turn on for him. but then, we can afford to just keep popping them out.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 3, 2013 at 8:07 PM
I could beat that in terms of irresponsibility, but I don't feel like getting bashed.
flawskii
by on Feb. 3, 2013 at 8:13 PM
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 Just out of curiosity but do you really think the "pull out method" will really keep you from getting pregnant?

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Isaacsmom913
by Platinum Member on Feb. 3, 2013 at 8:16 PM

Scary or not, if the deed is done it's done.  If you do wind up pregnant look on it as a blessing and who knows, maybe you'll get your son.  If not, beware the middle child of 3 girls--we're wicked :)

mommy_me
by ~The Three B's~ on Feb. 3, 2013 at 8:20 PM

 What a dick move

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 3, 2013 at 8:25 PM

 It would most definitely be a blessing! BUT. I just don't really know if I could handle another baby right now. If ever.

And I know I shouldn't say that, because I did the deed, and knew full well what I was doing. :(

I'm almost 100% positive that DH does NOT want another baby. He just said it.

Quoting Isaacsmom913:

Scary or not, if the deed is done it's done.  If you do wind up pregnant look on it as a blessing and who knows, maybe you'll get your son.  If not, beware the middle child of 3 girls--we're wicked :)

 

1234abcd4321
by on Feb. 3, 2013 at 8:27 PM

buy some condoms mama! i couldn't handle 3.. and who knows if he'll even get his boy. you gotta protect yourself from this foolish man who clearly loses perspective in the heat of the moment  :)

AllieReed
by Gold Member on Feb. 3, 2013 at 8:28 PM
I wish I could get knocked up that easily.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 3, 2013 at 8:55 PM

 I'm sorry if I upset you.. That really sucks. :(

Quoting AllieReed:

I wish I could get knocked up that easily.

 

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