Ok she had 1 daughter from a relationship before dh. She gave birth to her daughter at 15 and her mother raised her daughter until her daughter was 14 and then told her suck it up and be a mom. Raise your damn kids.She lives with her dad, her brother, and her daughter. She only sees my sks every other weekend. Weeelll kids came home today and were talking about their time there like they enjoy doing. Then the told us that their mother and the rest of the family had chiken fingers while they had to eat pb&j. Huhh?so we talked more about it. Turns out it is not uncommon for them to all go out and get pizza, chinese and other tastier food and they are stuck with pb&j watching everyone eat yhe "better" stuff. (including mommies 2 boyfriends). Who the hell can treat kids like that? I mean me and dh have had special meals but well after the kids are in bed and they still get a nice home cooked meal. We just do date night.