When we got together he had a job, a car, a house and was very respectful. We've been married 8 years now and have 3 beautiful daughters together. Up until two years ago I was a sahm and I homeschooled my children. Well all of a sudden dh came home one day and said he quit his job. What!? He swore he was going to find another and fast. Well we went through out savings and ended up having to fall back on pa all the while he says he's looking for a job. He wasn't. I eventually was able to find a job. Having no work history whatsoever it took a while and its just min wadge and not enough. I work 50+ hours a week while dh is sitting home with the kids, playing, taking naps, and playing game systems. Is house work getting done and dinner cooked? Not a chance. I get out of work at 8 pm rush home thaw dinner because he always puts back what I get out, cook it get the kids baths and into bed. I also have to make sure their schoolwork is done. After they're in bed I have to clean because he didn't clean a thing all day. What the heck!? I can't stand the sight of him anymore. And IF he does clean something (dishes maybe) I'm supposed to praise him and compliment him on it and treat him like a damn king for actually doing something. Help me! I'm jealous as heck that I have to work and he won't. I'm missed my dds first steps, her first words she's asleep when I. Leave for work and headed to bed as soon as I get everything done when I'm home. Any advice????