S/O of playing house.
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Ok, I have seen that a lot of women on here like to say that if a couple isn't married, they're just playing house. So, if a woman can't biologically have a child and the married couple adopts (or not married couple for that matter), that makes them "playing house" as well. If a couple needs to be married in order for the women on here to recognize them as a valid family, I think that a woman needs to biologically have a child in order to be a real mom.
Oh my, it wouldn't change their opinion, but if living together is playing house, so is adopting a child who is not biologically related to the parents. When an infertile couple adopts, I see that as playing house, just like if a couple is not married, married people think they're just "playing house."
Quoting Mamasgirl524:
What??? Why would adopting a kid change their opinion?
Lol. Well, I can't say I agree. But it is as ridiculous sounding as the women who claim unmarried women are "playing house".
I don't necessarily agree, either...just pointing out the ridiculousness of the statement in a different manner. I have been with my SO for 12 years, planned both our children and we're a family. A couple who adopts is just as much a valid, legitimate family as those who aren't married.
Quoting BeAuTiFuL.BLiSs:Lol. Well, I can't say I agree. But it is as ridiculous sounding as the women who claim unmarried women are "playing house".
I don't care what others think. I do what is right for us. Everyone will always have opinions on everything. I know right know there would be opinions on how I live, raise my children, my married life and so on. But what ever, they can have them.
All that matters is I do what is right for me and my family.
Do you ever get hit on even looking a mess?
Why inflict this silly cosmetic pain on a baby!?!