So my mom moved in with us almost a year ago. she lost her place and didnt have anywhere to go. It was suppose to be a short term thing. 10months later she is still here. We did not charge her or ask her to pitch in for the first 6 months. she did not have a job. but would get money from other people so she could buy herself smokes and alcohol. then she got a job for about 2 months and was paying a third. She was fired 4 months ago and hasn't givin us 5 bucks sense. I dont work but my dh does and he doesn't make much. we have 2 kids and one on the way and live in a 2 bedroom apt. not only is there not room but we are not financially able to help her anymore. My dh wants to kick her out like 6 months ago. i keep telling her she has to figure something out soon but nothing has happened. me and my dh fight all the time about her. i dont have the heart to kick her out but my dh says she has to figure things out for herself and stop free loading off of us. if u need more detailes about her just ask. i didnt want to make this super long cuz i could go on and on about her.