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If your Hubby has had a Vasectomy..

Anonymous
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If your DH has had a vacectomy .... Please answer these questions for me!!!!!!

  • How was the procedure done?
  •  Was he given an IV, Pill, or other?
  • Was he out  or consiece during the procedure?
  • What was the recovery period like?
  • How many days was he sore? Did he miss work?
  • How long until you had sex again?
  • Was there any pain during sex for him? How long did that last?
  • What helped him feel better?
  • Did "sexy" movies/commercials cause him pain (lol!)?
  • When he went in for a sperm count, where did he do it at? In the Drs room? The bathroom?
  • Was material given to him to help him get the job done? lol (like adult magazines)
  • Since having the procedure, do you notice any changes in your relationship? Is sex still as fun? Do you get along as well as you did before? Did it change either of your sex drives? 
  • Anything else we should know?
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 4, 2013 at 5:27 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 4, 2013 at 5:28 PM
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kameka
by on Feb. 4, 2013 at 5:30 PM
I'd love the answers to these too!
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 4, 2013 at 5:34 PM


How was the procedure done? He was given a Valium 15 minutes before. He went in, layed down on the table and the doc gave him a numbing shot. The shot hurt for a second and then he felt nothing as the procedure was done. 30 minutes later and he walked back out.

 Was he given an IV, Pill, or other? A Valium before and prescription for pain meds after.

Was he out  or consiece during the procedure? Awake fully but numb

What was the recovery period like? Sore for the rest of the day, frozen peas took care of that

How many days was he sore? Did he miss work? Back to work immediately, only a few hours of soreness

How long until you had sex again? They want you to not have unprotected sex until his sperm can be counted. We used a condom and had sex a few days later.

Was there any pain during sex for him? How long did that last? No pain or side effects what-so-ever

What helped him feel better? Frozen peas on the area

Did "sexy" movies/commercials cause him pain (lol!)? None

When he went in for a sperm count, where did he do it at? In the Drs room? The bathroom? They sent him home with a cup. He "did it" here and brought the sample in later. They're checking for how many sperm there are in the sample, they don't have to be living.

Was material given to him to help him get the job done? lol (like adult magazines) He just did it at home with nothing

Since having the procedure, do you notice any changes in your relationship? Is sex still as fun? Do you get along as well as you did before? Did it change either of your sex drives? Everything is great, nothing has really changed at all.

Anything else we should know?

muthrof_2
by on Feb. 4, 2013 at 5:36 PM
Took about an hour, gave a local anesthetic. He was back to work Monday, was done on a Thursday afternoon..we waited til his sperm cleared the test. Like 3 weeks.no pain. No commercials didn't. The place he had it done.he used his phone, not a clue what too lol get along better. And he lasts longer.. he's not as held back, cause I'm very fertile. He wants it more ..... Hahah if u end up pregnant the first thing he'll say is,it's not mine... Or so I've heard.
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Alliemad_3
by on Feb. 4, 2013 at 5:36 PM
How was the procedure done? It was done in the doctors office.

Was he given an IV, Pill, or other? He was given a Valium to take before the procedure
Was he out or consiece during the procedure? He was awake

What was the recovery period like? Two days rest then a little site for a few days.

How many days was he sore? Did he miss work? No work missed. Had it done Friday and back to work Monday

How long until you had sex again? A week...maybe 10 days? Lots of sex after that. He had to have X amount of ejaculations in a certain amount of time.

Was there any pain during sex for him? How long did that last? No pain during sex

What helped him feel better? Bags of peas and Motrin

Did "sexy" movies/commercials cause him pain (lol!)? What??

When he went in for a sperm count, where did he do it at? In the Drs room? The bathroom? He did the sample at home and delivered it to the doctors office.

Was material given to him to help him get the job done? lol (like adult magazines)

Since having the procedure, do you notice any changes in your relationship? Is sex still as fun? Do you get along as well as you did before? Did it change either of your sex drives? No change in sex
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Feb. 4, 2013 at 5:37 PM

  •  Was he given an IV, Pill, or other? Local Anestesia
  • Was he out  or consiece during the procedure? He was awake, playing a game on his phone.
  • What was the recovery period like? Easy as pie
  • How many days was he sore?  3ish Did he miss work? Only on Friday, the day it was done
  • How long until you had sex again? 2ish weeks
  • Was there any pain during sex for him? Nope How long did that last? 
  • What helped him feel better?  Bag of frozen peas on his junk
  • Did "sexy" movies/commercials cause him pain (lol!)?  No
  • When he went in for a sperm count, where did he do it at? In the Drs room? The bathroom? Dr. Office
  • Was material given to him to help him get the job done? lol (like adult magazines) idk
  • Since having the procedure, do you notice any changes in your relationship? Is sex still as fun? Do you get along as well as you did before? Did it change either of your sex drives? NO
  • Anything else we should know?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Feb. 4, 2013 at 5:38 PM

Yup, this is it, our/his experience exactly.  Except I would add to the last answer.... SEX IS BETTER!! 

Quoting Anonymous:


How was the procedure done? He was given a Valium 15 minutes before. He went in, layed down on the table and the doc gave him a numbing shot. The shot hurt for a second and then he felt nothing as the procedure was done. 30 minutes later and he walked back out.

 Was he given an IV, Pill, or other? A Valium before and prescription for pain meds after.

Was he out  or consiece during the procedure? Awake fully but numb

What was the recovery period like? Sore for the rest of the day, frozen peas took care of that

How many days was he sore? Did he miss work? Back to work immediately, only a few hours of soreness

How long until you had sex again? They want you to not have unprotected sex until his sperm can be counted. We used a condom and had sex a few days later.

Was there any pain during sex for him? How long did that last? No pain or side effects what-so-ever

What helped him feel better? Frozen peas on the area

Did "sexy" movies/commercials cause him pain (lol!)? None

When he went in for a sperm count, where did he do it at? In the Drs room? The bathroom? They sent him home with a cup. He "did it" here and brought the sample in later. They're checking for how many sperm there are in the sample, they don't have to be living.

Was material given to him to help him get the job done? lol (like adult magazines) He just did it at home with nothing

Since having the procedure, do you notice any changes in your relationship? Is sex still as fun? Do you get along as well as you did before? Did it change either of your sex drives? Everything is great, nothing has really changed at all.

Anything else we should know?



young_lv_mom
by Silver Member on Feb. 4, 2013 at 5:38 PM
Same with mine, all but he was off his feet for 2 days.

Quoting Anonymous:


How was the procedure done? He was given a Valium 15 minutes before. He went in, layed down on the table and the doc gave him a numbing shot. The shot hurt for a second and then he felt nothing as the procedure was done. 30 minutes later and he walked back out.

 Was he given an IV, Pill, or other? A Valium before and prescription for pain meds after.

Was he out  or consiece during the procedure? Awake fully but numb

What was the recovery period like? Sore for the rest of the day, frozen peas took care of that

How many days was he sore? Did he miss work? Back to work immediately, only a few hours of soreness

How long until you had sex again? They want you to not have unprotected sex until his sperm can be counted. We used a condom and had sex a few days later.

Was there any pain during sex for him? How long did that last? No pain or side effects what-so-ever

What helped him feel better? Frozen peas on the area

Did "sexy" movies/commercials cause him pain (lol!)? None

When he went in for a sperm count, where did he do it at? In the Drs room? The bathroom? They sent him home with a cup. He "did it" here and brought the sample in later. They're checking for how many sperm there are in the sample, they don't have to be living.

Was material given to him to help him get the job done? lol (like adult magazines) He just did it at home with nothing

Since having the procedure, do you notice any changes in your relationship? Is sex still as fun? Do you get along as well as you did before? Did it change either of your sex drives? Everything is great, nothing has really changed at all.

Anything else we should know?

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rebeccab1966
by Gold Member on Feb. 4, 2013 at 5:41 PM

My husband got "fixed" 10 years ago after my daughter was born.  He got a shot to numb him down there, they cauterized the tube and was on his way home.  He kept a frozen bag of peas in his underwear for a couple hours then got on his tractor and cut the lawn!  We waited about a month to have unprotected sex, to be safe.  Never had any issues or side effects, piece of cake.  And if a MAN says that, you know it must not have hurt!

LaughingCheetah
by on Feb. 4, 2013 at 5:42 PM
This...except for the frozen peas part. lol.


Quoting Anonymous:


How was the procedure done? He was given a Valium 15 minutes before. He went in, layed down on the table and the doc gave him a numbing shot. The shot hurt for a second and then he felt nothing as the procedure was done. 30 minutes later and he walked back out.

 Was he given an IV, Pill, or other? A Valium before and prescription for pain meds after.

Was he out  or consiece during the procedure? Awake fully but numb

What was the recovery period like? Sore for the rest of the day, frozen peas took care of that

How many days was he sore? Did he miss work? Back to work immediately, only a few hours of soreness

How long until you had sex again? They want you to not have unprotected sex until his sperm can be counted. We used a condom and had sex a few days later.

Was there any pain during sex for him? How long did that last? No pain or side effects what-so-ever

What helped him feel better? Frozen peas on the area

Did "sexy" movies/commercials cause him pain (lol!)? None

When he went in for a sperm count, where did he do it at? In the Drs room? The bathroom? They sent him home with a cup. He "did it" here and brought the sample in later. They're checking for how many sperm there are in the sample, they don't have to be living.

Was material given to him to help him get the job done? lol (like adult magazines) He just did it at home with nothing

Since having the procedure, do you notice any changes in your relationship? Is sex still as fun? Do you get along as well as you did before? Did it change either of your sex drives? Everything is great, nothing has really changed at all.

Anything else we should know?


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