What are some ways to keep my baby safe from her dad...maybe visitation.
I don't live with her dad, but we have been engaged 1 year, and together for 1 year before the engagement. We lived together for 6 months, just fine. But our jobs seperated us TEMPORARILY.
He's been acting distant, so I look through his messages and he flat out states in a message to his best friend that he cheated on me with his girlfriend ONE MONTH after dd was born! And then goes onto say "She's all yours now, I'm marrying my girl."
I'm shattered. He also may have some substance abuse problems. His mother threatened to hurt our baby, as well. I don't want child support. I just may want to get a restraining order and file a report on his mother... He is begging for my forgiveness, gave me his password to everything, deleted his FB account and is "dedicating his life to winning me back."
1. I broke up with him.
2. I never am marrying him.
3. He's not seeing our daughter until he grows the fuck up.
I told im he better get into a nice house, no more idiot friends, and he will have to start taking drug tests if he wants to see her again. I told him that I'd update him on her improvement but that's it. He's lost me, but still has hope for some odd reason...
Do you think I am being too lenient? What other precautions should I take? He will only be getting supervised custody, but I really don't want to take him to court, or his money. Should I get this custody thing done now?