I gave my ex a bed set for our son and he lets his GF's DD sleep in my son's bed
My parents gave me and my ex most the furniture we had. With the exception of our computer and big screen tv and just a few other things. So in court, the things my parents gave us did not go towards the furniture that needed to be divided. We only had to divided the kitchen table, the new flat screen 52 inch tv and the computer. I let me ex take all of those except the computer. I also let him take my younger son's bedroom set (my parents had an extra one in storage that was nicer anyway) so that he would have a place to sleep when he visited his dad, he is the only one of our children who is a minor.
Anyway, he recently informed me that now he has to sleep on the living room floor, I asked why he said that his dad's girlfriend (live in) kid visit at the same time he does and her DD gets to sleep in the second bedroom IN THE BED THAT MY PARENTS GAVE MY SON while her brother and my son sleep in the living room and "flip a coin" for the couch THAT MY PARENTS GAVE US. He said for some reason, he always looses the coin toss because if the girlfriend's son looses, he whines and she insists the coin was not flipped properly.
Well I immediately called my ex and asked what was going on, he said that he was teaching our son manners by letting the girl have the bedroom and the bed (the girl is 14, the boy is 11 and my son is 13). I told him that's not right, that I let him take the bedroom set (that I had every right to keep) for our son, not for his girlfriend's DD. I also reminded him that I also let him take the couch. I told him that my son WILL be sleeping in HIS bed and if he doesn't I will take it back to court and I doubt the judge will be happy to hear how my ex treats his own son.
I just can't believe that he would be this way to our son. Now I understand why my son doesn't want to go over there and to be honest, I don't blame him