Lets say you and your childrens father have been seperated for three years. During this time he has paid little to no child support. Rarely seen your kids twice a month if they were lucky. You don't have a court agreement. You tried to do the civil thing and work with his "random work schedule" made agreements and every agreement you made he broke and never followed through. No all the sudden he wants you to automatically give him 50/50 custody and take them three and a half days a week. Would you agree with him even though the last three years he was not there. What would you do?
Edit* Going to court house first thing this morning after I drop my kids off at school. My friend is meeting me for support and to make sure I follow through. I can be easily pushed into things but have stuck to my guns on this one. Thank you all for your input.