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Control in the bedroom piog

Anonymous
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So bf told me last night that he wants me to take control in the bedroom. I have looked up ways and it says the same thing that I do any way (biting, riding, etc). I just don't know what to do. I am not an agressive person, and I don't have much experience. Please a little help.
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 5, 2013 at 3:46 AM
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Bauxite-17
by on Feb. 5, 2013 at 3:50 AM

Does he mean control, like he wants you on top, making all the first moves, or controld like, some S&M type stuff?....you don't want to break out the handcuffs and whips just yet.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 5, 2013 at 4:09 AM
I really don't know. Most of the times I start out with making the first move, and I get on top almost everytime we have sex.


Quoting Bauxite-17:

Does he mean control, like he wants you on top, making all the first moves, or controld like, some S&M type stuff?....you don't want to break out the handcuffs and whips just yet.


Bauxite-17
by on Feb. 5, 2013 at 4:11 AM

 Hand cuff him, lol...see what he does.


Quoting Anonymous:

I really don't know. Most of the times I start out with making the first move, and I get on top almost everytime we have sex.


Quoting Bauxite-17:

Does he mean control, like he wants you on top, making all the first moves, or controld like, some S&M type stuff?....you don't want to break out the handcuffs and whips just yet.



 

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 5, 2013 at 4:15 AM
Yeah lol it sounds good in theory but I would need money for that lol.


Quoting Bauxite-17:

 Hand cuff him, lol...see what he does.




Quoting Anonymous:

I really don't know. Most of the times I start out with making the first move, and I get on top almost everytime we have sex.



Quoting Bauxite-17:


Does he mean control, like he wants you on top, making all the first moves, or controld like, some S&M type stuff?....you don't want to break out the handcuffs and whips just yet.





 


Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 5, 2013 at 4:48 PM
Bump
HerLadyGrey
by on Feb. 5, 2013 at 4:49 PM
Just pretend he's a rude cashier and tell him what your normally would in bed. It's all in the tone of voice.
MommyCirca2004
by on Feb. 5, 2013 at 4:50 PM
You can "make" handcuffs out of a belt, scarf, tape, etc. Also, try just telling him what to do, how to do it, and being a little forceful.
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