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its been almost a year

Anonymous
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since DH and I have had ANY type of intimacy :( - last time was on our anniversary, how sad is that?  I am constantly being turned down, he says the meds he is on kills his sex drive.  he also told me he would talk to the doctor but hasn't.  I feel SO disconnected from him and I hate this feeling.  what would you do in this situation?

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 5, 2013 at 8:46 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 5, 2013 at 8:47 AM
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Accidentally cheat.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 5, 2013 at 8:47 AM
What kind of meds?
momsince04
by on Feb. 5, 2013 at 8:48 AM
Make an appt with his Dr. An make home go. Are you sure he isn't seeing anyone else?
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PerfectVirgo
by on Feb. 5, 2013 at 8:50 AM

I'm sorry. maybe he's dealing with something emotionally, maybe have him schedule a full check up?

dbrown1989
by Silver Member on Feb. 5, 2013 at 8:50 AM

 That is awful mama. I was there with an ex boyfriend that I was with for over 4 years. We didn't have anything going on for 2 of those years. And he too told me that it was the medication he was on...turned out, it wasn't his medication, it was that he was getting some from his ex and every other girl with open legs. I hope this is not the case for oyu.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 5, 2013 at 8:51 AM

you can never be 100% but I am 99.999999% sure he is not seeing anyone else. 



Quoting momsince04:

Make an appt with his Dr. An make home go. Are you sure he isn't seeing anyone else?



Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 5, 2013 at 8:52 AM

he did have blood drawn and everything is within normal range.  He lost his dad about 15 months ago and is still feeling the effects of that. 


Quoting PerfectVirgo:

I'm sorry. maybe he's dealing with something emotionally, maybe have him schedule a full check up?



mrscass0416
by Gold Member on Feb. 5, 2013 at 8:52 AM
Wow

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Accidentally cheat.

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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 5, 2013 at 8:52 AM

he is on pain meds (strong ones)

Quoting Anonymous:

What kind of meds?



Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 5, 2013 at 8:53 AM
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um, no



Quoting Anonymous:

Accidentally cheat.



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