I told dh to go watch some porn.

[Anonymous]

Personally, I don't like porn. It grosses me out. But, the last few years have been really stressful, and our sex life has been practically non-existent. Dh and I want to get back in the groove, but we're having trouble. I guess I'm kind of looking for him to sweep me off my feet and I think he forgot how. So... I told him to go watch some porn to get some ideas on what to do for me or even just movie clips. He looked excited. Lol

ETA- WHY is everyone assuming I'm looking for dh to romance me????? I'm not!!! I'm looking for a good freaking time. Let's get freaky is basically what I'm saying.

[LucyHarper]

" WHY is everyone assuming I'm looking for dh to romance me?????" " I guess I'm kind of looking for him to sweep me off my feet", thats why, just letting you know. 

[SandyLaxner]

 **Naive**  What's a mushroom stamp?

Quoting Anonymous:

Mushroom stamp..... Lmao.

Quoting Anonymous:

Unless he's watching the couples/romance category, then the only ideas he's going to get are jizzing on your face and giving you a mushroom stamp. Personally we both like porn, and it's fun to watch together.

 

[armstrong7984]

so you guys cant experiment together? or get some tips online? instead you tell your husband to go watch other couples have sex? im sorry i guess im missing something

[SterlingHeart]

I had 2 great relationships (sexual) that kinda set my expectations.... both were very driven to please and got everything they wanted in return --- they were my first 2 real relationships so I guess they kinda groomed how I feel or want sex.... and the other 2 men after also were just like them to a degree.... so now being married to a man that is less of the take charge and less intense sexually has been not a huge loss he is so much more in so many ways but yeah i miss that about them and wish i could get that in my marriage.....  I understand exactly where your at!  LOL 

Quoting Anonymous:

LOL exactly!!!!!!

Quoting SterlingHeart:

i agree it can feel odd to actually say what you want when your thinking they should already know... sex to me isn't rocket science --  with some men there is that no need for words intense chemistry that is on the edge of animal --- then there is a more sedate relationship where sex is good but it almost feels like your in the lead and if your like me -- you rather not be LOL 

Quoting Anonymous:

You're a smart cookie ;)

Quoting SterlingHeart:

i get it --- if he watches and trys stuff he sees --- you don't have to actually ask him to do it.... it just happens and all is hot, happy and orgasmic LOL  

Quoting Anonymous:

When your sex life is non existent... Pretty much anything is better than nothing. I don't expect everyone to understand especially if they have never been through what I have.

Quoting MsMcWithey:

What ideas could he possibly get from porn? Nothing in a porno would sweep me off my feet.