It is immature and stupid to behave this way. Your children are not your damn toys that you play keep away with.
Together, divorced, or just plain didn't work out life still happens. Some things you can control, and other things that are completely out of you control.
If something has to change because it is out of everyone's control then be adults and make it work.
If something has to change that is in control of everyone then be adults and figure it out. As long as it is planned well in advance.
The only people that lose in this are the children.
So here's a thought grow up and behave like adults so you children are never forced to choose.
Together, divorced, or just plain didn't work out life still happens. Some things you can control, and other things that are completely out of you control.
If something has to change because it is out of everyone's control then be adults and make it work.
If something has to change that is in control of everyone then be adults and figure it out. As long as it is planned well in advance.
The only people that lose in this are the children.
So here's a thought grow up and behave like adults so you children are never forced to choose.
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on Feb. 5, 2013 at 2:26 PM
AMEN!!!!!!!
That is exactly what I said in the other post! It's sad really, and I feel so bad for the children in this situation!
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on Feb. 5, 2013 at 2:29 PM
It is stupid how immature parents are when it comes to visitation and everything else that involves the children.
Quoting milmomma2006:AMEN!!!!!!!
That is exactly what I said in the other post! It's sad really, and I feel so bad for the children in this situation!
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on Feb. 5, 2013 at 2:31 PM
I agree. It's not a game of chess, it's your child's life.
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on Feb. 5, 2013 at 2:45 PM
Like our not life is still going to happen. If more parents behaved like adults this wouldn't be an issue.
Quoting Anonymous:
I say make sure whatever you plan is on your weekend. Don't switch things up and go by the court order.
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on Feb. 5, 2013 at 2:51 PM
I just don't understand why people behave this way.
Quoting PhoenixsMommy10:
I agree. It's not a game of chess, it's your child's life.
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on Feb. 5, 2013 at 2:52 PM
My ex and i never did this stuff.
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on Feb. 5, 2013 at 2:53 PM
Now if all parents acted like parents. I would be great, but it doesn't always happen .
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leaving baby alone while i do laundry?
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on Feb. 5, 2013 at 2:20 PM