I'm leaving my DD to go out for a girls day tomorrow, first time I've ever left her..she's 11 months old, well she will be 1 on Thursday. I feel terrible, DF will be with her (her dad) and they are both sick (cold) but he still thinks I should go because I need to relax and my sister (and bff) is having a hard time with her marriage and needs some me&her time. I just am so nervous, and before everyone starts calling me obsessive/emotionally attached Tp my baby, I ENJOY being with her. I like being with her everyday, I don't need "me" time, or at least I didn't. I have my time to relax or whatever while she's sleeping, and the rest of the time I enjoy being with her so I just always have. But lately DF and I have been so stressed about money/bills etc. That I know this will be good for me too. I am just sad and scared to leave her, I trust DF 100% and he is an amazing father, very hands on. I'll be gone from like 8-about noontime. I'm going to a rummage sale about an hour away, and then hitting an outlet mall for some last minute birthday shopping. Any tips to make of easier? I'm already nervous and trying not to over think this lol. How was your first time away from your babies?