Ahhh. That feels better already! DH and his ex do one week on, one off with their 2 kids 11 and 13. ex and I get along great except...... she is SO used to my dh being a single, absent minded bachelor that I feel like I have a wife who is around 24/7. Five emails a day (minimum) about do we remember there is a half day tomorrow -my kids are in the same school and grade... Im aware- and whats the plan for it? Sign ups for baseball is next week - dh is coach... we know. Do you know how to monitor the lunch accts - uh my kids are 21, 19, 18 and 13... yup... been there done that once or twice and Ive been monitoring the lunch as well as the powerschool accounts daily. She really doesnt need to forward the low balance email notification bc... yup, I set it up. Its aaaaalllll set. Yes its very helpful SOMETIMES, but not ALL the time for EVERYTHING. How do I tell her that without it being weird???