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SDD, 16 is pregnant

Anonymous
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For the last 8 months, SDD's mother has been letting her boyfriend (SDD's boyfriend that is) spend the night in her room on weekend). DH only found out about this about 2 months ago DH told her he was uncomfortable with it he even talked to his attorney about it but the attorney said that we can fight it all we want but at her age, the judge probably wouldn't even do anything and even if he did, he would just order the sleepovers to stop and that probably wouldn't stop anyway. So DH talked to his DD about it which ended in a huge fight.

Guess who is pregnant... yep SDD and now her mom says that DH should have to help provide for the baby!!!! DH said he will continue to pay his ordered child support and we will buy things for the baby as we see fit but his ex isn't getting another cent from us for the baby. She says that because she legally can't kick SDD out, DH should legally have to support the baby. Well DH wasn't the one allowing sleepovers with the boyfriend.

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 5, 2013 at 6:26 PM
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zebbyzebby06
by Gold Member on Feb. 5, 2013 at 6:27 PM
Wow!!
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sassysuie
by Gold Member on Feb. 5, 2013 at 6:30 PM

 I'm sorry...

lovnmy3boys
by Paula on Feb. 5, 2013 at 6:31 PM

What a mess...

corib4687
by Silver Member on Feb. 5, 2013 at 6:31 PM
Oh dear. Bump
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 5, 2013 at 6:32 PM
Oh my. That is horrible!!!!!! Good luck.
Momma3830
by on Feb. 5, 2013 at 6:32 PM
That sucks. I have no advice. But I wish y'all the best & I hope everything works out.
Good luck momma. :)
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hnjen12
by on Feb. 5, 2013 at 6:32 PM

That sucks

RaynesMommy07
by Ruby Member on Feb. 5, 2013 at 6:32 PM
That's one huge train wreck.
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eviesmom453
by Platinum Member on Feb. 5, 2013 at 6:32 PM
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Um, neither parent should pay for the baby. Damn DD needs to have an abortion or give the baby up for adoption.

MochaBerry24
by Silver Member on Feb. 5, 2013 at 6:33 PM
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If she is old enough to get pregnant then she is old enough to get a job and support the baby herself
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