He just doesn't care:/

[Anonymous]

& it breaks my heart.........

His baby will be here anyday and not so much as a call/text anything its the most devastating thing I've ever had to deal with... How could you not care about your first child/ son ? :'( I just don't get it and im pretty sure it will get worse when he's born and his father doesn't even show up :(

[svolkov]

Write him off. Better no dad or maybe an adoptive loving step dad someday than a pos loser

[Diamepphyre]

 **** Hugs ****  His loss, mama.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

:( so true..

Quoting svolkov:

Write him off. Better no dad or maybe an adoptive loving step dad someday than a pos loser

[Anonymous]

Been there done that mama. It really doesnt get much easier. Unfortunately, you just need to come to a point where you accept it.

Goodluck.

[aunty75]

I was there 20 years ago ,never bothered to be involved or even sign the birth certificate. I felt so sad but i accepted it and filled her life with love and happinesss . Today she is a freshman at columbia's barnard college of women after completeing 9 months at a prestigious private school soon after graduating high school w high honors. i share this story about a beautiful person who came into this world and continues to be such a blessing. Although the transitioning is difficult but have faith and love your child and be as opened about questions that will arise as they grow. Congradulations and have faith and everything will work out.

[misskriss10]

I'm sorry. Don't stress about him. It's his loss. 

[boys2men2soon]

Quoting svolkov:

Write him off. Better no dad or maybe an adoptive loving step dad someday than a pos loser

Meanwhile, you get all those miraculous 'firsts' to enjoy......while he misses out.   His loss.