My confession... Dh isn't all that great...
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In bed :(.. I mean we get there but it's my doing not really his. We were both virgins when we met and I just thought that as time went on he would get better, but 8 yrs later and He's still got trouble keeping rhythm or even setting a rhythm! And let's not even talk about getting him to last long than 10 minutes!
One of the main issues is the talk though.. He wants me to talk dirty, but when I do he gets so excited he starts laughing like a little boy getting his first o.
I've tried to talk to him about it but I just don't know how to explain it to him to get him better at it. I like it a little rougher and for the man to take the lead so it's really frustrating always having to be in control to get myself there.
No I don't want to leave him!! I just don't know how to get him better at this :(
One of the main issues is the talk though.. He wants me to talk dirty, but when I do he gets so excited he starts laughing like a little boy getting his first o.
I've tried to talk to him about it but I just don't know how to explain it to him to get him better at it. I like it a little rougher and for the man to take the lead so it's really frustrating always having to be in control to get myself there.
No I don't want to leave him!! I just don't know how to get him better at this :(
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 6, 2013 at 12:11 AM
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on Feb. 6, 2013 at 12:19 AM
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Have you told him that you need him to take control sexually? He has told you he needs dirty talk so why not communicate your needs. My dh and I are going on 7 years and we were both virgins as well, so I can relate.
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on Feb. 6, 2013 at 12:21 AM
That's gotta be hard.... I don't know what to suggest if he gets giggly when you talk dirty. Have you tried positive reinforcement? Like, show him what you like & moan/praise him when he does it again?
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on Feb. 6, 2013 at 12:21 AM
Ugh, I feel you. No advice, because I'm in the exact same situation!
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on Feb. 6, 2013 at 12:24 AM
LOL, sorry!
I don't have a LOT of guys to compare DH to but he's by far the best I've been with! And he's pretty damn great in every other way as well, I'm lucky :)
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