Would make the wedding menu yourself? Have a potluck? Have a picnic?
What would the ideal thing to do be?
Ok I was wondering because someone I know is gettin married this summer. She just posted something on fb to the effect of "we have this menu and I need your help!" She links to a menu which has 20 different food items (apps to sandwiches to desserts). It came off as can you buy and prepare this for us (she did this overfb to all of her friends, not as a private msg). They are self catering I guess.
I understand being frugal! But this is a first for me. I *could*do potluck...I can whip out a casserole like nobody's business...but not something I would necessarily burden wedding guests with IMO.
Is this the new thing? She says they want to self cater but then turns around and asks all family and friends to provide food for a specific menu for 180 guests?
Tbh my first thought was cut down the wedding guests.
Anyways just something I'd never seen before! Should be an interesting wedding! Not sure what they will do if no one shows up to cook?