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omg get up and take care of ur kid or go home!!! upddate update 2!!!!

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dear sil,

i dont miund watching ur baby for you while you work till 11pm  but if you are going to stay  over the night. TAKE CARE OF YOUR DAMN KID! DONT LEAVE HER IN HER PACK AND PLAY SCREAMING  SINCE 8 AM  BECAUSE YOU WANT TO SLEEP!

im so annoyed right now. mil lives in MY home. and sil stays over with the baby often. she is straight ignoring this screaming child because shes too tired. at one point she took the baby out of the crib and let her run around mils room not only destroying her room but when mil found her had money and jewlery in her mouth ( mils room is not baby proof)  not only am i pissed off mil left sil here while she went to work, but this child has been screaming because shes hungry and probably wet for hours on and off. and i here sil tellhing her to hush and be quiet.dh has told me to stop taking care of the baby for her ( i used to do everything because sil would just let her suffer) and to stay out of it and let him handle it. but hes not home. i have been up all night long sick im exhausted and wanted to sleep before i had class...so much for that!

and no im not going up there and getting her kid and doing what she should be doing.we have told her what she needs to do, she refuses, cps has been called but nothing is ever done. mil enables her and im tired of it. she needs to get her lazy ass out of bed and take care of that kid and get out of my house!


update the baby started screaming bloody murder...i now have the baby  and shes eating and happy...sil is STILL out cold despite us trying to get her up....frustrated


update 2

so mil came home i told her what was going on she said its not her fault shes on medication for insomnia and took it late...whatever!  she said she couldnt here the baby screaming while she was sleeping because of the medication. then 15 minutes later yells up the steps at sil to get up and sil responds..hmmm..thought she couldnt here anything ..plus i heard her telluing the baby to shut up and be quiet ect.

mil then made sil a nice cup of coffee and a big lunch and they are sitting at the table chatting....while the baby wonders my house ( im watching but sil doesnt know that) if i wasnt so damn tired from being up all night i would say something but ill just let dh handle it later.



Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 6, 2013 at 11:53 AM
Replies (21-30):
catrig
by Platinum Member on Feb. 6, 2013 at 12:46 PM

Your house.  Kick her out.  MIL too if she doesn't like it.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 6, 2013 at 12:50 PM
I would video tape it all to get proof of what's going on. Sadly that baby needs someone like you and she is very blessed to have you. I know it's hard but do it for the baby.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Feb. 6, 2013 at 12:50 PM
That is her husbands mother and it is his home too.


Quoting MrsDavidB25:

 Then MIL would be out. Why do you allow all of these people to live in YOUR home?


Quoting Anonymous:


ive tried. mil allows this. i watch the baby to help out and so i know shes taken care of because god knows what would happen otherwise. sil has been caught smoking a blunt while the baby played at her feet. so if its ok for her to do that  who knows what enviroment she would leave the baby in.  and as far as cps... she has been reported SOOOOO many times by multiple people and they havnt even investigated. cps does nothing here. we tried to  get her to sign rights to  either me or mil so we could take care of her properly and sil refuses. she wont let someone hae the legal right to care for her but she wants us to raise  the kid anyways ...and i refuse to do that. if im going to raise the baby im not having her mother walking  in and out as she pleases taking the baby from me when she feels like being a mom and dumping her off when she doesnt. ( which is what she was doing) for the first year i thought of that baby as my own because i had to care for her, take her to drs apts, do physical therapy with her, go to specailists ect. her mother has NEVER gone to one of these apts, doesnt do the exersizes or work with her. i begged her to let me have her so sil could go to school and get her life together, get a stable place, ect. sil refused but still expected me and mil to raise the baby so i had to pull back. it broke my heart to see how neglected this child is, and love her so much. i had to pull back and let sil make her mistakes and hope for the best. i pray cps gets inolved but i know how cps works here and they wont do anything till its to late.


 


Quoting LoveMyLos:


they wouldn't be in my house. i wouldn't be watching the baby. and i would be on cps's asses like white on rice. what a loser.


 


 


 


MrsDavidB25
by Stacey on Feb. 6, 2013 at 12:52 PM

 LOL, right.

Quoting Anonymous:

That is her husbands mother and it is his home too.


Quoting MrsDavidB25:

 Then MIL would be out. Why do you allow all of these people to live in YOUR home?


Quoting Anonymous:


ive tried. mil allows this. i watch the baby to help out and so i know shes taken care of because god knows what would happen otherwise. sil has been caught smoking a blunt while the baby played at her feet. so if its ok for her to do that  who knows what enviroment she would leave the baby in.  and as far as cps... she has been reported SOOOOO many times by multiple people and they havnt even investigated. cps does nothing here. we tried to  get her to sign rights to  either me or mil so we could take care of her properly and sil refuses. she wont let someone hae the legal right to care for her but she wants us to raise  the kid anyways ...and i refuse to do that. if im going to raise the baby im not having her mother walking  in and out as she pleases taking the baby from me when she feels like being a mom and dumping her off when she doesnt. ( which is what she was doing) for the first year i thought of that baby as my own because i had to care for her, take her to drs apts, do physical therapy with her, go to specailists ect. her mother has NEVER gone to one of these apts, doesnt do the exersizes or work with her. i begged her to let me have her so sil could go to school and get her life together, get a stable place, ect. sil refused but still expected me and mil to raise the baby so i had to pull back. it broke my heart to see how neglected this child is, and love her so much. i had to pull back and let sil make her mistakes and hope for the best. i pray cps gets inolved but i know how cps works here and they wont do anything till its to late.


 


Quoting LoveMyLos:


they wouldn't be in my house. i wouldn't be watching the baby. and i would be on cps's asses like white on rice. what a loser.


 


 


 


 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Feb. 6, 2013 at 12:53 PM
I suppose your husband is a pussy.


Quoting MrsDavidB25:

 LOL, right.


Quoting Anonymous:

That is her husbands mother and it is his home too.



Quoting MrsDavidB25:


 Then MIL would be out. Why do you allow all of these people to live in YOUR home?



Quoting Anonymous:



ive tried. mil allows this. i watch the baby to help out and so i know shes taken care of because god knows what would happen otherwise. sil has been caught smoking a blunt while the baby played at her feet. so if its ok for her to do that  who knows what enviroment she would leave the baby in.  and as far as cps... she has been reported SOOOOO many times by multiple people and they havnt even investigated. cps does nothing here. we tried to  get her to sign rights to  either me or mil so we could take care of her properly and sil refuses. she wont let someone hae the legal right to care for her but she wants us to raise  the kid anyways ...and i refuse to do that. if im going to raise the baby im not having her mother walking  in and out as she pleases taking the baby from me when she feels like being a mom and dumping her off when she doesnt. ( which is what she was doing) for the first year i thought of that baby as my own because i had to care for her, take her to drs apts, do physical therapy with her, go to specailists ect. her mother has NEVER gone to one of these apts, doesnt do the exersizes or work with her. i begged her to let me have her so sil could go to school and get her life together, get a stable place, ect. sil refused but still expected me and mil to raise the baby so i had to pull back. it broke my heart to see how neglected this child is, and love her so much. i had to pull back and let sil make her mistakes and hope for the best. i pray cps gets inolved but i know how cps works here and they wont do anything till its to late.



 



Quoting LoveMyLos:



they wouldn't be in my house. i wouldn't be watching the baby. and i would be on cps's asses like white on rice. what a loser.



 



 



 



 


Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Feb. 6, 2013 at 12:55 PM

Put a pitcher of water in the fridge for a bit, or let some ice sit in it........then go dump it on her head. If that don't wake her up she may be dead. Tell her she has a week to start caring for that baby proper or she can get out.

MrsDavidB25
by Stacey on Feb. 6, 2013 at 12:55 PM
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 First of all, my wonderful (and I mean that) MIL died last year of cancer, so thanks for that. Second of all WE do not allow other family members to live with us, This is our home, for our family. Third of all, my husband is an infantry officer, the furthest thing from a pussy there is.

Quoting Anonymous:

I suppose your husband is a pussy.


Quoting MrsDavidB25:

 LOL, right.


Quoting Anonymous:

That is her husbands mother and it is his home too.



Quoting MrsDavidB25:


 Then MIL would be out. Why do you allow all of these people to live in YOUR home?



Quoting Anonymous:



ive tried. mil allows this. i watch the baby to help out and so i know shes taken care of because god knows what would happen otherwise. sil has been caught smoking a blunt while the baby played at her feet. so if its ok for her to do that  who knows what enviroment she would leave the baby in.  and as far as cps... she has been reported SOOOOO many times by multiple people and they havnt even investigated. cps does nothing here. we tried to  get her to sign rights to  either me or mil so we could take care of her properly and sil refuses. she wont let someone hae the legal right to care for her but she wants us to raise  the kid anyways ...and i refuse to do that. if im going to raise the baby im not having her mother walking  in and out as she pleases taking the baby from me when she feels like being a mom and dumping her off when she doesnt. ( which is what she was doing) for the first year i thought of that baby as my own because i had to care for her, take her to drs apts, do physical therapy with her, go to specailists ect. her mother has NEVER gone to one of these apts, doesnt do the exersizes or work with her. i begged her to let me have her so sil could go to school and get her life together, get a stable place, ect. sil refused but still expected me and mil to raise the baby so i had to pull back. it broke my heart to see how neglected this child is, and love her so much. i had to pull back and let sil make her mistakes and hope for the best. i pray cps gets inolved but i know how cps works here and they wont do anything till its to late.



 



Quoting LoveMyLos:



they wouldn't be in my house. i wouldn't be watching the baby. and i would be on cps's asses like white on rice. what a loser.



 



 



 



 


 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Feb. 6, 2013 at 12:56 PM
LOL, right.


Quoting MrsDavidB25:

 First of all, my wonderful (and I mean that) MIL died last year of cancer, so thanks for that. Second of all WE do not allow other family members to live with us, This is our home, for our family. Third of all, my husband is an infantry officer, the furthest thing from a pussy there is.


Quoting Anonymous:

I suppose your husband is a pussy.



Quoting MrsDavidB25:


 LOL, right.



Quoting Anonymous:

That is her husbands mother and it is his home too.




Quoting MrsDavidB25:



 Then MIL would be out. Why do you allow all of these people to live in YOUR home?




Quoting Anonymous:




ive tried. mil allows this. i watch the baby to help out and so i know shes taken care of because god knows what would happen otherwise. sil has been caught smoking a blunt while the baby played at her feet. so if its ok for her to do that  who knows what enviroment she would leave the baby in.  and as far as cps... she has been reported SOOOOO many times by multiple people and they havnt even investigated. cps does nothing here. we tried to  get her to sign rights to  either me or mil so we could take care of her properly and sil refuses. she wont let someone hae the legal right to care for her but she wants us to raise  the kid anyways ...and i refuse to do that. if im going to raise the baby im not having her mother walking  in and out as she pleases taking the baby from me when she feels like being a mom and dumping her off when she doesnt. ( which is what she was doing) for the first year i thought of that baby as my own because i had to care for her, take her to drs apts, do physical therapy with her, go to specailists ect. her mother has NEVER gone to one of these apts, doesnt do the exersizes or work with her. i begged her to let me have her so sil could go to school and get her life together, get a stable place, ect. sil refused but still expected me and mil to raise the baby so i had to pull back. it broke my heart to see how neglected this child is, and love her so much. i had to pull back and let sil make her mistakes and hope for the best. i pray cps gets inolved but i know how cps works here and they wont do anything till its to late.




 




Quoting LoveMyLos:




they wouldn't be in my house. i wouldn't be watching the baby. and i would be on cps's asses like white on rice. what a loser.




 




 




 




 



 


MrsDavidB25
by Stacey on Feb. 6, 2013 at 12:58 PM

 What's so funny?

Quoting Anonymous:

LOL, right.


Quoting MrsDavidB25:

 First of all, my wonderful (and I mean that) MIL died last year of cancer, so thanks for that. Second of all WE do not allow other family members to live with us, This is our home, for our family. Third of all, my husband is an infantry officer, the furthest thing from a pussy there is.


Quoting Anonymous:

I suppose your husband is a pussy.



Quoting MrsDavidB25:


 LOL, right.







Quoting MrsDavidB25:



 









 




 




 




 




 



 


 

barrelracer1699
by Silver Member on Feb. 6, 2013 at 12:59 PM

Tell her she is no longer welcome to spend the night, unless she gets up and takes care of her daughter!

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