Ok, so my kid is 5 yrs old. He is high-functioning autistic and has potty issues. He's still not fully potty trained. You can ask and ask him multiple times, and he'll never tell you when he has to pee. He'll literally sit there and pee all over the floor, in his pant and undies. I'm so frustrated I don't know what to do. So for the past 2 or 3 months, his teacher everyday, has been complaining that he won't go to the bathroom and pees all over his clothes and her floor everyday. I take him to the bathroom every 20 min when he's home. He'll never tell me. I don't know what more I can do. I go to pick him up from school today and the teacher has another teacher tell me how he "smells like urine" and the kids are making fun of him.
I put him in clean clothes in the morning, wash his face, brush his teeth and feed him. I make sure he goes to the bathroom 1 and 2x before leaving the house. If he is peeing on the way to school, I wouldn't know because I never smell or see anything. I told her how I do him when we're home. I tell him time after time to go to pee in the potty but no, he won't. He wont do it. Using the bathroom is the worst thing he could ever do in his life. What am I supposed to do in this situation? Now the teachers are making it appear as though I put him in pissy pants to go to school and am just being lazy. This truly hurts my feelings. I know I'm doing the best that I can and I don't know what more to do besides putting him back in pull ups. I'm so frustrated and angry and ask myself why. Why out of all of the kids in the class does my kid have the potty issue? I feel like screaming but I know that won't change anything. I feel so alone. I need help please. I don't know what else to do.