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Is it bad for me to want to be pregnant??

Anonymous
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We aren't on the best of terms right now hell I don't even think we are together right now but I want so bad to be pregnant. I know a baby isn't gonna make him stay with me. It's just wishful hoping.
Before things went south we were actually trying to get pregnant, we were talking about marriage, ad everything was fine until this morning.
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 6, 2013 at 4:50 PM
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missamanda86
by Silver Member on Feb. 6, 2013 at 4:50 PM

Thats a bit selfish I think. I mea sure, most people deserve to be together, but babies deserve to have 2 parents too. Not bashing, because I left my ex husband when my baby was 10 months old, but its difficult at first doing it alone

stephiebugg
by Gold Member on Feb. 6, 2013 at 4:50 PM

 Yeah, no. Babies don't make men stay.

I want so bad to not ever be pregnant again.  :)

April620
by Ruby Member on Feb. 6, 2013 at 4:51 PM
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Make him put a ring on it first
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ChristieV
by on Feb. 6, 2013 at 4:51 PM
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Yes. That is selfish. You would be setting yourself and your child up to a lot of pain.

areid1023
by Bronze Member on Feb. 6, 2013 at 4:52 PM

its not bad for you to feel that way. it would be foolish to act on it.

Allie_kat1
by Gold Member on Feb. 6, 2013 at 4:52 PM
Wanting it isn't wrong. Doing something to try to make it happen in that situation would though.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 6, 2013 at 4:53 PM
He is a good dad to his two children so I don't have to worry about him abandoning the child. It's only wishful thinking.


Quoting ChristieV:

Yes. That is selfish. You would be setting yourself and your child up to a lot of pain.


Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 6, 2013 at 4:54 PM
Well before things went south we were actually trying to get pregnant.


Quoting areid1023:

its not bad for you to feel that way. it would be foolish to act on it.


areid1023
by Bronze Member on Feb. 6, 2013 at 4:55 PM


well, since things have gone south i would say you dodged a bullet. 

Quoting Anonymous:

Well before things went south we were actually trying to get pregnant.


Quoting areid1023:

its not bad for you to feel that way. it would be foolish to act on it.




 my little bug! 11-29-08

KatieFlower
by Silver Member on Feb. 6, 2013 at 4:56 PM

You cant help how you feel, its natural to feel that way, we are women after all! but then we have to decide whether we should actually or not

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